the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"

About this episode

This episode discusses how to become your own version of an 'it girl' through mindset shifts and self-trust.

hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌 becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching for it in trends, attention, or other people’s validation. in this video, we’re talking about what it really takes to become her through mindset shifts, self trust, and the daily habits that shape the way you move, present yourself, and create your life. this is for the girl who knows she is meant for more, is outgrowing old versions of herself, and is learning how to stop shrinking, stop trying to fit in, and fully step into her own energy 🩷 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:18 Chapter 1: Redefining the "It Girl" (The New Mindset) 08:22 Chapter 2: The Transformation 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: Shop my Abbott Lyon Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL MANIFESTATION JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY…

People in this episode

Host: Tam Kaur

Topics covered

• self-improvement
• mindset shifts
• personal growth
• self-trust
• daily habits
• confidence

Keywords

• it girl
• self improvement
• mindset
• habits
• personal growth
• confidence
• validation

Sponsors

Abbott Lyon

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Abbott Lyon

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