About this episode

This episode explores the concept of experiencing desire without pressure, enhancing trust and emotional connection in relationships.

Have you ever stopped yourself from feeling close to your spouse because you were worried about where it might lead? In this episode, I explore why arousal, or what the ancient Greeks called Eros, is about so much more than sex. I talk about how learning to experience desire without pressure or expectation can create deeper trust, stronger emotional connection, and a more vibrant marriage. If you've ever felt like affection automatically comes with an agenda, this episode will help you discover how allowing Eros to simply exist can transform both your relationship and your intimate connection.

People in this episode

Host: Amanda Louder

Topics covered

• arousal
• emotional connection
• trust
• marriage
• desire
• intimacy

Keywords

• arousal
• Eros
• emotional connection
• trust
• marriage
• intimacy
• desire
• affection

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Eros

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