Sex for Saints
by Amanda Louder
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Episode 443 - Do Men Just Want Sex for Pleasure?
Oct 16, 2026
31m 52s
Episode 442 - Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want
Oct 9, 2026
29m 57s
Episode 441 - Bait and Switch
Oct 2, 2026
27m 16s
Episode 440 - Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It
Sep 25, 2026
47m 34s
Episode 439 - Why the Changes You Make Never Last
Sep 18, 2026
30m 02s
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- 🇺🇸United States · SexualityHOME#24169K to 893K
- 🇨🇦Canada · Sexuality#512.6K to 14K
- 🇳🇿New Zealand · Sexuality#97105 to 555
- 🇳🇬NG · Sexuality#15637 to 197
- 🇭🇰HK · Sexuality#13734 to 179
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/16/26 | Episode 443 - Do Men Just Want Sex for Pleasure? | Most of us were handed the same story about men and sex, that it is mostly about physical release and not much else. When researchers stopped assuming and actually asked men what drives their desire, the answers came back looking very different from the stereotype. In this episode I walk through what that research found, why so many men have never said any of it out loud, and what it costs a marriage when a wife decides she is interchangeable. I also spend time on the part that gets lost in this conversation, that wanting your body and wanting you are not the same thing, and that the physical was never the problem. If you have ever assumed you already knew why your husband reaches for you, this one is for you. Here is the interest form for a potential Men's Group Coaching Membership with Amanda: https://airtable.com/appAch4uB19x84ZKZ/paggqDY8FxrLKaFgM/form | 31m 52s | ||||||
| 10/9/26 | Episode 442 - Why Keeping Score Never Gets You What You Want | Most of us keep score in our marriages without ever calling it that. We track who got up with the baby, who apologized first, how many times we reached over and got turned down. It starts as a way to get something to change, and it ends up making sure nothing does. In this episode I talk about what scorekeeping actually is, what it looks like around the house and in the bedroom, and why your count is almost always wrong. We look at the research on why you cannot see most of what your spouse contributes, how confirmation bias keeps a wrong count feeling accurate, the two places resentment comes from, and the over functioning and under functioning pattern sitting underneath a lot of this. Then we talk about what it takes to move a marriage back from transactional to an equal partnership. | 29m 57s | ||||||
| 10/2/26 | Episode 441 - Bait and Switch | The men in my comments say the same thing over and over. She was one way before the wedding and another way after, and they feel like they were sold something that never got delivered. Women tell me the same thing from the other direction. He wanted to know everything about her before marriage, and now the only time he comes looking for her is when he wants sex. Both of them believe they got the bait and switch, and both of them are partly right. In this episode we look at what actually changed, which is not the people and not the facts, but the meanings underneath them. The way out is not deciding who lied. It is getting curious about what all of this means to the person you married. Get the worksheet at: www.amandalouder.com/podcast/441/ | 27m 16s | ||||||
| 9/25/26 | Episode 440 - Why Couples Stop Kissing and How to Revive It | Somewhere along the way, a lot of married couples stop really kissing. It turns into a quick peck at the door, or it only shows up as the first step toward sex. And the spouse who misses it usually decides that means something about whether they are still wanted, which is almost never what is actually going on. In this episode I get into why kissing disappears from a marriage, what the research says about how men and women experience it differently, and what it takes to get it back. I also say the thing nobody wants me to say about why your spouse might be keeping it short. Here is the worksheet for this episode. | 47m 34s | ||||||
| 9/18/26 | Episode 439 - Why the Changes You Make Never Last | Most couples who come to me have already tried. They have read the books, taken the courses, sat with a therapist, and walked out with a plan they both believed in. And it worked, for a few weeks, maybe a few months, before everything slid back to exactly where it was. In this episode I use an iceberg model I heard Brene Brown describe to explain why that keeps happening. The problem you can see is only the tip. Through the story of one couple who made the same plan five separate times, I walk down all four layers and show why the changes you make never last, and what actually has to shift for them to hold. The Iceberg Under Your Marriage Graphic | 30m 02s | ||||||
| 9/11/26 | Episode 438 – The Art of Receiving: Why It's So Hard and Why It Matters | Many conversations about improving your sex life focus on what men can do differently. But there's another side that rarely gets talked about: women who can't receive. In this episode, Amanda breaks down two distinct patterns — the wife who checks out and endures, and the wife who keeps redirecting everything back to her husband — exploring why each happens, where the need for control comes from, and what it actually takes to change. Whether you're the one struggling to receive or the husband who's stopped trying, this episode offers a way forward. Get the worksheet here | 37m 54s | ||||||
| 9/4/26 | marriagerelationship patterns+3 | — | — | — | marriagecouples+5 | — | 17m 39s | ||
| 8/28/26 | marriageseven deadly sins+4 | — | Fully Alive | — | seven deadly sinsmarriage+5 | — | 46m 38s | ||
| 8/21/26 | marriageparadoxes+3 | — | — | — | marriageparadoxes+4 | — | 32m 12s | ||
| 8/14/26 | emotional safetymarriage+4 | — | — | — | emotional safetymarriage+6 | — | 31m 59s | ||
| 8/7/26 | arousalemotional connection+4 | — | Eros | — | arousalEros+6 | — | 22m 00s | ||
| 7/31/26 | sexualityego+5 | — | Mosiah 3:19 | — | natural mansexuality+8 | — | 30m 19s | ||
| 7/24/26 | sexualityinterpretation+3 | — | Latter-Day Saint cultureAlma 39 | — | sexual sinAlma 39+5 | — | 38m 51s | ||
| 7/17/26 | sexualityworthiness+4 | — | — | — | sexualityworthiness+4 | — | 44m 29s | ||
| 7/10/26 | intimacyworthiness+3 | — | — | — | intimacyworthiness+5 | — | 39m 03s | ||
| 7/3/26 | sexualitymarriage+4 | — | Latter-day Saintspurity culture | — | sexualityworthiness+5 | — | 53m 47s | ||
| 6/26/26 | communicationdefensiveness+3 | — | — | — | defensivenesscommunication+5 | — | 17m 14s | ||
| 6/19/26 | relationship reconnectionresponsive desire+4 | — | — | — | relationshipdesire+5 | — | 18m 29s | ||
| 6/12/26 | initiationrejection+4 | — | — | — | initiationrejection+5 | — | 22m 42s | ||
| 6/5/26 | rejectionmarriage+3 | — | — | — | rejectionmarriage+5 | — | 24m 44s | ||
| 5/29/26 | male sexualityreligious messages+4 | — | — | — | male desiresexuality+3 | — | 21m 16s | ||
| 5/22/26 | sexual mindfulnessemotional connection+3 | Dr. Chelom Leavitt | Penn State | — | sexual mindfulnessemotional safety+5 | — | 35m 35s | ||
| 5/15/26 | communicationrelationships+3 | — | — | — | hard conversationsambush conversations+3 | — | 20m 28s | ||
| 5/8/26 | marriageemotional safety+4 | — | — | — | protect and provideemotional safety+5 | — | 25m 20s | ||
| 5/1/26 | sexual integrityself-worth+4 | — | — | — | sexual integrityself-worth+5 | — | 24m 19s | ||
| 4/24/26 | relationship dynamicsintimacy+3 | — | — | — | sex lifepressure+5 | — | 35m 15s | ||
| 4/17/26 | foreplayintimacy+4 | — | — | — | foreplayintimacy+6 | — | 23m 01s | ||
| 4/10/26 | marriagerelationship dynamics+3 | — | — | — | marriagerelationship+5 | — | 23m 43s | ||
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Chart history for Sex for Saints
Peaked at #24 in United States, currently #24 in United States.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| United States | — | #24 | #24 | — |
| Canada | — | #51 | #51 | — |
| New Zealand | — | #97 | #97 | — |
| HK | — | #137 | #137 | — |
| NG | — | #156 | #156 | — |
Chart Positions
5 placements across 5 markets.
Chart Positions
5 placements across 5 markets.