Exploring Non-Monogamy & Dating Apps with Öykü from Beyond

About this episode

Tia Lynn Campbell interviews Öykü about non-monogamy and the challenges of dating apps for those in the ethical non-monogamous community.

Episode 176: Exploring Non-Monogamy & Dating Apps with Öykü from Beyond Dating App What if everything we were taught about love, sex, and relationships was designed to keep us playing small? 🔥 In this honest conversation, I'm sitting down with Öykü, the creator of Beyond —a dating app built for the ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous community (because we deserve better than those awkward "couple seeking unicorn" vibes). It's for all styles of dating. We're getting into what ENM really teaches us, why mainstream dating apps suck for anyone doing relationships differently, and how to stop apologizing for wanting what you want. We talk about the fear of being too MUCH —and why that shame is just old programming we get to delete. We talk compersion (getting turned on by your partner's joy with someone else—yes really), sexual liberation as rebellion, and the game-changing truth that the more you prioritize YOUR pleasure, the hotter and more present you become in all your relationships. If you're poly-curious, exploring non-monogamy, questioning the rules, or ready to do love and sex on your own terms—this one's for you. 💋 LINK to join the app…

People in this episode

Host: Tia Lynn Campbell

Guest: Öykü

Topics covered

• non-monogamy
• dating apps
• polyamory
• sexual liberation
• compersion
• healing sexual shame
• authentic dating

Keywords

• ethical non-monogamy
• polyamorous community
• dating app
• pleasure
• sexual shame
• bisexuality
• compersion

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Beyond, Sexy Biz Babe

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