Female Orgasm Tips No One Taught You (Men take notes) with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast

About this episode

The episode discusses practical tips for achieving real orgasms and addresses common misconceptions about female pleasure.

177: Female Orgasm Tips No One Taught You (Men take notes) with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast Female pleasure is rarely taught honestly. In this episode, we break down why so many women fake orgasms and how to have real, satisfying orgasms using practical pleasure tips, communication, and body awareness. What if the reason you’re not orgasming (or your partner isn’t) has nothing to do with your body being “broken”… and everything to do with what no one ever taught you?In this deliciously honest, funny, and wildly validating episode, I sit down with Rat Girl Podcast to talk about how to actually orgasm with a vulva — whether you’re solo, partnered, married, dating, ADHD, curious, or just tired of faking it.We’re talking real pleasure, not porn-based performance sex.We break down why:• “Jackhammering” isn’t doing what you think it’s doing• Faking orgasms keeps everyone stuck (and how to stop)• The so-called “tight V” myth is actually about arousal • Why vulvas literally grow, expand, and need warming up• The orgasm gap is real — and fixable • Vibrators don’t make partners “inferior” (they make sex better)• Most people orgasm more with clit stimulation and toys • There is MORE than…

People in this episode

Host: Tia Lynn Campbell

Guest: Abigail

Topics covered

• female pleasure
• orgasm tips
• communication
• body awareness
• sexual health
• ADHD and sex

Keywords

• female orgasm
• pleasure tips
• faking orgasms
• clit stimulation
• sexual communication
• ADHD sex struggles
• vulva
• vibrators

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Rat Girls Podcast

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