So When Do I… Open Up My Heart Again? With Marci and Lynn

About this episode

The episode explores the challenges of dating after 50, focusing on the emotional journey of opening up after loss.

Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again? We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, shifting identity, and the challenge of opening your heart again. We talk about confidence, independence, dating apps, and the reality of building a new life while honoring the one you had. If this resonates with you, we hope it serves as a reminder that you don’t have to rush, settle, or follow anyone else’s timeline when it comes to dating later in life. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube…

People in this episode

Hosts: Susan Feldman, Phyllis Berger

Guests: Marcy Dinkins, Lynn Williams

Topics covered

• dating after 50
• loss of spouse
• opening up
• confidence
• independence
• dating apps
• new beginnings

Keywords

• dating
• loss
• heart
• confidence
• independence
• dating apps
• new life

Sponsors

Caddis

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