So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?

Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again?We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, shifting identity, and the challenge of opening your heart again. We talk about confidence, independence, dating apps, and the reality of building a new life while honoring the one you had. If this resonates with you, we hope it serves as a reminder that you don’t have to rush, settle, or follow anyone else’s timeline when it comes to dating later in life.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

At what point do we stop trying to look younger and start trying to look like ourselves?In this episode, we’re joined by Bobbi Brown—legendary makeup artist, founder of multiple beauty brands, and the force behind Jones Road—who changed the industry by championing natural, real beauty long before it was the norm. Together, we'll talk about the pressure to look younger, the difference between beauty and youth, and why feeling comfortable in your own skin is what actually creates confidence. Bobbi shares her philosophy on enhancing what’s already there, simple ways to feel more like yourself, and how she continues to evolve without chasing trends.Maybe the goal isn’t to rewind the clock and instead to feel good in your skin, as it is today.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when one of life’s hardest questions becomes real?In this deeply personal and courageous episode, we sit down with our dear friend, Barbara Corday, and her husband Roger to talk about something so many of us fear but rarely know how to face: an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Together, we explore what it actually feels like to live with memory loss in real time—the small moments, the quiet frustrations, the unexpected grace—and what it means to love and care for someone through it. This episode is a reminder that behind every diagnosis is a person still living, still feeling, still navigating their world, and that the people beside them are learning, too.If you or someone you love is going through something similar, we hope this conversation makes you feel a little less alone. Because as always… we’re still figuring it out, together.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when your closet is full, but you still feel like you have nothing to wear? Maybe some of the clothes in your closet no longer feel aligned with who you are, and that's okay. As we age, our bodies change, our lives change, and our style has to change with us.In this episode, we sit down with Stacy London—stylist, author, cultural fashion voice, and someone many of us know from What Not to Wear—for an honest conversation about style, aging, and identity. Stacy, whose bestselling book The Truth About Style helped redefine the conversation around fashion and self-image, has spent decades helping women understand that getting dressed is about much more than trends. Her work today continues to focus on confidence, self-expression, and what it means to stay visible and fully yourself at any age.This conversation is about more than clothes. It’s about curiosity, confidence, reinvention, and giving ourselves permission to evolve.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Loneliness is something so many of us feel, yet so few of us talk about.In this episode, we open up about the quiet, complicated reality of loneliness. It can show up, even in full and busy, love-filled lives, and it’s often tied to life transitions, disconnection, and the technology-filled world we live in now.Joined by therapist Sarah Kenny, we explore the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and why shame only deepens the feeling. Under Sara's guidance, we'll also share some small, meaningful ways to combat loneliness and better connect with each other, from journaling to reaching out to new friends. Ultimately, this journey of reconnection begins by acknowledging our feelings and remembering that we're not alone.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As women, why do we often shy away from talking about money? In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of financial literacy with Steph Wagner, the author of Fly: A Woman's Guide to Financial Freedom and Building a Life You Love and the National Director of Women & Wealth at Northern Trust. As a leading voice in financial empowerment for women, Steph shares not only her personal story but also her thoughts about emotional patterns around money and why we need to move past shame, build confidence, and create a more secure and empowered future for ourselves. Because it’s never too early (or too late) to take control of your financial life.To purchase Steph Wagner's book, Fly: A Woman's Guide to Financial Freedom and Building a Life You Love, visit: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Fly!/Steph-Wagner/9781637747650This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It seems like everyone is talking about GLP-1 medications and weight loss these days—but why is there still so much stigma around using them? Why do we, as women, feel ashamed for turning to medical tools to support our health as we age? What even is a GLP-1? How does it affect our bodies?In addition to discussing our personal experiences, we're excited to bring on Dr. Kathleen Jordan today to answer all of our questions. She the Chief Medical Officer at Midi Health, the fastest growing women's telehealth company, and an internal medicine physician and Menopause Society Certified Provider who leads a team of clinicians in caring for women in midlife.Join us for an honest conversation about the science behind GLP-1s, overcoming judgment and shame, and the changing cultural narrative around medical weight loss.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Please note, this conversation is intended for informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional about decisions regarding your health.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we age, it can feel like everywhere you turn someone is talking about Botox, fillers, or plastic surgery. But how do you know when a procedure might actually make sense—and when it might not? Today, we’re talking all things plastic surgery with board-certified plastic surgeon, Dr. Michele Koo.Dr. Michele is a nationally recognized plastic surgeon known for her meticulous attention to detail, working closely with patients to identify areas they’d like to improve and creating thoughtful treatment plans tailored to their unique anatomy and goals.Today, we’ll talk with her about when surgery might be worth considering versus when something less invasive—like a little Botox—might do the trick. We’ll also discuss why “less is more,” how cosmetic procedures can be an empowering choice for women as they age, and why it’s important to remember that no procedure can replace taking care of yourself and feeling good on the inside.Because while looking refreshed can be wonderful, true confidence comes from health, happiness, and embracing every stage of life.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Please note, this conversation is intended for informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional about decisions regarding your health.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome back to another episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? Today, we’re doing a deep dive into the intricacies of female friendships. Do friendships get easier as we age? Do we really not care what other people think about us? It turns out, there’s actually a biological reason that social rejection affects us so deeply. So, how do we flip the narrative when we don’t feel included in social situations? Together, we’ll engage in a vulnerable, thoughtful conversation about rewriting the stories we tell ourselves when we feel we don’t belong, the importance of being honest about our feelings, and how to ultimately show up as our most confident selves at every age.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It seems like everybody is talking about taking hormones these days. Is there a right time to start? Should all women entering menopause even take hormones? Today, we’re sitting down with an expert on hormones, Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, to answer all our questions.Dr. Suzanne is not only a board-certified OB-GYN, certified menopause practitioner, and the co-author of Menopause Bootcamp, but she also is a trusted voice helping change the way we talk about hormones, aging, and women’s health—especially in the years beyond menopause, when so many women are left without guidance.We’ll cover anything and everything you’ve ever wondered about menopause, estrogen, testosterone, and more.This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone says laughter is the best medicine… But is it really better than botox for us aging women? Today, we’re talking all about using humor to deal with tough times with Ali Wentworth. You might know Ali from her appearances on In Living Color or The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, or you may have read one of her five New York Times bestselling books. Maybe you know her as “Shmoopie” from Seinfeld, or as Meryl Streep’s best friend in the Nancy Meyer film, It’s Complicated. Regardless of where, Ali has surely made you laugh at some point. Today, we’ll be chatting with her about everything from parenting strategies to supporting friends through medical emergencies, knowing when and how to turn to laughter when all else fails. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the first episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?, a place for women to feel connected as we navigate new stages of life. Today, we're reflecting on moments where we felt inspired to start something new, whether it’s a creative hobby, sport, or entrepreneurial endeavor—just like creating this podcast. Together, we'll recount stories through laughs, a couple tears, and shared insights about the importance of pushing yourself to try new things, especially as we age. From learning to golf to taking a painting class, it’s never too late to continue rewiring your brain and finding a novel pursuit that makes you more excited to live life. Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.