Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?

Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?

From Swapping Secrets by Our Secret Spot

February 24, 2026 · 1h 0m

About this episode

In this episode, Jess and Lawrence discuss boundaries, consent, and the complexities of non-monogamous relationships while answering community questions.

In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex • How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy • Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely • The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle • Parenting while owning a sex club • Managing jealousy, reputation and daycare drop-offs • Working with your ex while building a lifestyle business Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity. If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can…

People in this episode

Hosts: Jess, Lawrence

Topics covered

  • non-monogamy
  • swinging
  • boundaries
  • consent
  • jealousy
  • parenting
  • sex-positive spaces

Keywords

  • swinging
  • non-monogamy
  • boundaries
  • consent
  • jealousy
  • sex club
  • double penetration
  • parenting

Sponsors

Flirt, Stigma Health

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