Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny

Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny

From Swapping Secrets by Our Secret Spot

March 24, 2026 · 52 min

About this episode

Jess and Lawrence discuss the red flags in dating that are often ignored due to strong attraction.

In this episode of Swapping Secrets , Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices , to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle , this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and decision-making. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with…

People in this episode

Hosts: Jess, Lawrence

Topics covered

  • red flags
  • dating
  • attraction
  • psychology of desire
  • communication
  • boundaries
  • unsafe sex practices

Keywords

  • red flags
  • dating
  • attraction
  • communication
  • boundaries
  • unsafe sex
  • psychology

Sponsors

Flirt, Stigma Health

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Organizations: Our Secret Spot

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