Swapping Secrets

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with gay men have taught him about love, loneliness, dating, commitment, and why many people are still searching for genuine connection despite having more options than ever before. We also explore what heterosexual couples could learn from the way many queer relationships approach communication, boundaries, relationship structures, and emotional honesty. Whether you’re queer, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous, dating, partnered, or simply curious about modern relationships, this episode offers fresh perspectives on what meaningful connection really looks like today. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Find Daniel: Website Instagram Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up about the origins of Yoni Pleasure Palace, how crystal and glass toys are reshaping internal pleasure, and why slowing down can unlock deeper, more connected, more embodied orgasms. They explore the healing power of self-touch, why shame still lingers around solo pleasure, and how early “be quick, be quiet” conditioning shapes adult sexuality. Rosie also unpacks the creation of Splash Blanket, the booming global culture around squirting, and why having permission to “make a mess” can be the key to letting go. From myth-busting and toy talk to navigating pleasure in relationships and reconnecting with your sensual body, this episode is equal parts grounding, expansive, and joyfully liberating. If you’ve ever wanted to explore sensuality, pleasure, body confidence, or inner connection without shame — this is your invitation. Rosie’s Links:FREE 7-Day Self Pleasure Course: https://yoni-pleasure-palace.teachable.com/p/7-day-self-pleasure-trainingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosie.reesYoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.comSplash Blanket: https://splashblanket.com (use promo code: secretspot)Women’s Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yonipalace Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and freedom. With real stories from parents in the community (and a few cheeky confessions of their own), they unpack how families make it work without letting love or lust take a back seat. Inside this episode: How parents in the lifestyle juggle childcare, sex lives, and relationship time. Why scheduling and planning ahead is the secret weapon for sexy parents. Dealing with stigma at daycare, the school gate, and in the wider community. Why keeping connection alive as partners makes you better parents. PLUS — in this week’s Just the Tip segment, Jess & Lawrence play a hilarious game of Parenting or Sex Toy? with items from their very own survival kit. Spoiler: not everything is as innocent as it looks… Whether you’re a parent curious about the lifestyle or a listener who just loves real talk about sex, stigma, and balance — this episode proves that with creativity (and the right babysitter), you really can have it all. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian Adult Industry Choice Awards, and marketing lead for Sxhibition. This episode goes deeper into how people are rewriting the rulebook of love and intimacy in 2025, balancing personal choice, communication, and freedom in their relationships. From relationship anarchy to ethical non-monogamy, from spicy industry trends to raising kids with open conversations — this episode is packed with real stories, fresh insights, and a candid look at how conscious choices are reshaping love today. Why every relationship is unique — and why that’s a good thing. How the adult industry is reflecting (and shaping) new-age love. Talking to kids about sex, love, and relationship choices without shame. Behind the scenes of the rebranded Adult Industry Choice Awards & Sxhibition. PLUS — our “Just the Tip” segment with Lucy explores how boundaries, conscious decisions, and communication aren’t just buzzwords — they’re the foundations of happy, sexy, sustainable relationships. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10) “Sxhibition” https://sxhibition.com (use promo code: SECRETS10) “Adult Choice Awards” https://adultchoiceawards.com.au (use promo code: SECRETS10) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and the oh-so-sexy moments of starting out in the lifestyle. From taking that nerve-wracking step into the swingers’ club, to experimenting with toys, lingerie shopping, and even trying the infamous sex swing. What’s it like prepping for your very first club visit? Why a lingerie shopping date could be the perfect warm-up. How to set the mood before you arrive (yes, cocktails included). Which toys and cheeky accessories are worth bringing (and which ones to leave at home). Just the Tip: What to wear when you’re dressing sexy for the club. With personal anecdotes, listener-inspired stories, and plenty of laughter, this episode is the perfect starter for anyone curious about swinging, non-monogamy, or simply spicing up their play. So, grab a drink, slip into something sexy, and join us for the very first Swapping Secrets. Sponsored by “Flirt” www.flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Instagram (Club) TikTok (Podcast) TikTok (Club) Facebook (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post First-Time Stories, Sexy Starters and Club Newbie Tips appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

It’s not Episode 101 (yet), but we’re keeping your earbuds warm with a juicy mid-season treat. In this special in-between-isode, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Our Secret Spot’s own literary temptress — Natasha Rose — to talk all things erotica, imagination, and the powerful role of storytelling in sexuality. What turns us on in a story? How do erotic novels differ from visual porn? What fantasies have YOU heard in audio form that stayed with you? From the very first page, Natasha Rose draws us into her sensual world — one where words spark desire, and fantasy knows no bounds. In this intimate bonus episode, we explore her journey as an erotic writer: how she gets inspired, what her creative process looks like, and why fiction can be just as powerful (if not more so) than visual porn. Moreover, we dive into the growing popularity of audio erotica, and why some fantasies are best experienced through headphones and a vivid imagination. We also share a few cheeky excerpts, favourite tropes, and personal reflections on the kinds of stories that linger long after the final chapter. So, whether you’re a book lover, a sensual soul, or just erotica-curious — light a candle, pour yourself a glass of something delicious, and indulge with us. New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100 spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram Facebook X TikTok Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks?Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us:Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [here]. The post OSS Presents: Seductive Stories & Erotic Novels — With Natasha Rose appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

We’re coming up on 100 episodes—and we want you to be part of the celebration! In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share some exciting news about what’s next for the podcast. We’re calling on our listeners to send in their favourite podcast moments—whether it’s a wild story, a laugh-out-loud moment, or something that made you feel seen. Email, message, or send a voice note! PLUS, we’re giving the podcast a glow-up. After episode 100, we’ll be taking a short break and returning with a fresh new vibe and format. Tune in for all the details and help us celebrate this milestone! If you have any questions, please contact us via the links below. We hope you enjoy the episode. Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Get in on the fun and join the party at the club. Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Would you like to connect with other people from the club? You can join our Online Member’s Area. You can share photos and stories, arrange meetups and learn about the club’s latest goings-on. Come and join the community: MEMBERS AREA Get in touch with us here: Email Instagram Facebook X Phone – 1300 OSS 069 A 5-star rating on Google would also be excellent. Leave your review here. Listen to our podcast here: The post 99.5 Some Exciting News! appeared first on Our Secret Spot.