How to Notice Progress Without Measuring It
About this episode
The episode discusses the importance of recognizing personal progress without relying on measurements, particularly in the context of ADHD.
At the end of the day, when your brain starts tallying everything you didn't finish, where's the credit for everything you did? In the Season 32 finale, we close out the season on the quiet skill that gets buried under all that mental accounting — noticing your progress instead of measuring it. The unfinished stuff is loud: the laundry pile, the twenty-item list, the messages still waiting. The progress is silent, and a lifetime of report cards and performance reviews has trained us to see only what's left. We get into why that happens — with a detour through a 1927 psychology experiment that explains a lot about the ADHD shame loop — what self-compassion actually looks like in a real day, and why the answer isn't a shinier scorecard. Plus a family-dinner ritual worth stealing, an optical illusion that makes the whole point, and one of the more memorable cold opens of the season. It's our send-off into summer break, and a reminder that sometimes the entire practice fits into one word. Links & Notes Support the Show on Patreon Dig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast (01:33) - Join the Community…
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Topics covered
- noticing progress
- self-compassion
- ADHD shame loop
- mental accounting
- family rituals
Keywords
- ADHD
- progress
- self-compassion
- mental health
- measurement
- psychology
- shame loop
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: TruStory FM
Books & works: 1927 psychology experiment
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