About this episode
In this episode, Dr. Alison Cook discusses the importance of inner qualities and how they shape our interactions with ourselves and others.
Today's Scripture: Colossians 3:12–15 Every morning, we get dressed before stepping into the world—but what are we wearing on the inside? In today’s episode, we reflect on Colossians 3. This isn’t about performing spiritual maturity or pretending hard feelings aren’t there. It’s about receiving the qualities of Christ deep within your own soul, so they can begin to shape how you show up for yourself and others. We explore: *How anxiety, resentment, shame, or defensiveness can become something you “wear” *Why identity comes before spiritual practice *How compassion and kindness are practiced (without bypassing what's hard) *A simple way to start your day Go Deeper: Preorder The Secure Soul now and get access to the first three chapters, plus my free masterclass, Healing the Wounds That Shape Us Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison’s free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast…
People in this episode
Host: Dr. Alison Cook
Topics covered
- spiritual maturity
- identity
- compassion
- kindness
- anxiety
- self-reflection
Keywords
- spiritual growth
- self-care
- mental health
- emotional well-being
- daily practices
Mentioned in this episode
Products: The Secure Soul
Books & works: Colossians 3:12–15
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