269. It's not luck or timing. It's these two things.

269. It's not luck or timing. It's these two things.

From The Feminist Dating Show by Lily Womble

April 7, 2026 · 14 min

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This episode discusses two learnable skills essential for finding love beyond luck and timing.

Finding love isn't just luck or timing. It comes down to two learnable skills. Episode 269 of The Feminist Dating Show breaks both of them down so you can start practicing today. Inside this episode: ✨ The reason going on more dates won't get you closer to the right person. Dating is not a numbers game. It's an act of self-trust. ✨ Proximity to aligned opportunity: why most people are either paralyzed by fear or doing dating busy work, and what to do instead. ✨ Courageous behavior in the face of opportunity: shooting your shot, blessing and releasing fast, asking for what you want on a first date. That's not too much. That's main character energy. ✨ Women who self-silence during conflict are four times more likely to die prematurely. These two skills aren't just how you find love. They're how you stop silencing yourself once you're in it. Work with Lily: 📖 Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book 🌟 Join the Main Character Dating waitlist: https://datebrazen.com/dating ✨ Free Essence-Based Preferences workbook: datebrazen.com/workbook

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