
Why is my husband STILL lying to me?
From The Grounded Union Podcast by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen
December 12, 2025 · 1h 1m · Season 3 · Episode 1
About this episode
Brandon and Caitlyn coach Drew and Chelsea through the challenges of trust and honesty in their marriage following Drew's porn addiction recovery.
In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn coach Drew and Chelsea through a three-year journey of porn addiction recovery that's been overshadowed by persistent lying. In this live call-in session, Chelsea vulnerably shares her heartbreak: despite Drew's initial confession and stopping pornography, she has "literally zero trust" as small lies continue to surface. Brandon and Caitlyn trace Drew's compulsive dishonesty back to childhood shame and his first exposure to pornography at age eight, revealing why traditional one-time disclosures fail. They challenge Drew to embrace daily radical transparency, explaining that "silly lies" signal deeper hidden truths. This raw coaching session introduces their four R's rewiring process and offers a powerful promise: commit to removing the veil completely, and your marriage will be transformed within a year. Looking for immediate support in your marriage? Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to claim your spot Workshops for Couples: Join the waitlist to get notified Follow us on social at @brandontalksmarriage & @caitlyn_doerksen Check out our IG account to stay updated @groundedunion YouTube Show available here…
People in this episode
Hosts: Brandon Doerksen, Caitlyn Doerksen
Guests: Drew, Chelsea
Topics covered
- porn addiction
- marriage coaching
- trust issues
- transparency
- childhood trauma
Keywords
- lying
- porn addiction recovery
- trust
- marriage transformation
- coaching session
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