About this episode

Vanessa explores the complexities of healing and self-acceptance through the lens of Jungian psychology.

What if some of what we call healing is actually an argument with the Self? In this episode, Vanessa explores the fantasy that enough therapy, coaching, spirituality, or self-development will eventually turn us into someone without friction: endlessly patient, available, social, regulated, and easy to love. Through Jung’s ideas of persona, Self, and shadow, along with research on self-discrepancy, ACT, self-compassion, and self-concept clarity, we look at the grief of realizing the idealized self may never arrive. The invitation is not resignation, but reality contact: meeting the actual self with enough honesty and tenderness to build a life that finally fits. Take the quiz here https://www.vanessabennett.com/space-holder-quiz Reference Links: • Carl Jung — Persona Use for: Persona as the social face / adaptation to society. Link: https://iaap.org/jung-analytical-psychology/short-articles-on-analytical-psychology/persona-2/ Note: This supports the episode’s distinction between persona/social acceptability and deeper wholeness. • Carl Jung — Shadow Use for: Shadow as hidden or repressed parts of the personality, including not only “dark” material but also instincts, reactions…

People in this episode

Host: Vanessa Bennett

Topics covered

• healing
• self-acceptance
• Jungian psychology
• self-discrepancy
• self-compassion
• personal growth

Keywords

• healing
• self-development
• Jung
• persona
• shadow
• self-concept clarity
• self-compassion

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Gamut Podcast Network

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