About this episode

Vanessa explores the psychological impact of betrayal and how to heal from it.

Betrayal doesn’t only break trust in another person; it can also rupture your trust in yourself. In this episode, Vanessa explores why betrayal can feel so psychologically disorganizing, especially when harm comes from someone or something that was supposed to feel safe. We talk about betrayal trauma, betrayal blindness, attachment injury, projection, reality testing, and why not every devastating feeling is the same kind of event. The deeper healing is not becoming harder or more armored, but learning how to grieve specifically, see more clearly, and trust yourself again. Reference Links: Jennifer Freyd — Betrayal Trauma Theory Use for: Betrayal trauma theory; harm from someone or something a person depends on or trusts. Link: https://dynamic.uoregon.edu/jjf/defineBT.html Note: Freyd’s site defines betrayal trauma and includes betrayal blindness. Jennifer Freyd — Betrayal Blindness Use for: Why people may not fully register betrayal when they depend on the person, institution, or system doing harm. Link: https://dynamic.uoregon.edu/jjf/defineBT.html Note: The site describes betrayal blindness as unawareness, not-knowing, and forgetting that can preserve relationships…

People in this episode

Host: Vanessa Bennett

Topics covered

• betrayal
• trust
• psychological disorganization
• betrayal trauma
• attachment injury
• self-trust
• grief

Keywords

• betrayal trauma
• trust issues
• psychological harm
• attachment injury
• self-trust
• grieving
• betrayal blindness

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Gamut Podcast Network

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