About this episode

Amanda Dames speaks with Simone Milasas about relationship advice applicable to both kinky and vanilla couples.

Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think. This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone Milasas, global facilitator, author, and creator of Access Consciousness, to talk about how the relationship advice she gives to vanilla couples applies just as powerfully to kinky relationships and BDSM dynamics. They cover the five elements of intimacy you need to build with yourself before you can offer them to a partner, the concept of a "creationship" and how it differs from a traditional relationship, and the one question that can either deepen your connection or finally give you both the clarity to move on. Tune in, get brutally honest with yourself, and find out what becomes possible in your kinky relationships when you stop telling yourself the story that's been keeping you stuck. Connect with Simone Milasas https://www.simonemilasas.com/ https://www.instagram.com/simonemilasas/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMNJfnEjT/ Connect with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Book A Consult Call with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult⁠ Download the BDSM…

People in this episode

Host: Amanda Dames

Guest: Simone Milasas

Topics covered

• kinky relationships
• vanilla relationships
• intimacy
• creationship
• BDSM dynamics
• relationship advice

Keywords

• kinky relationships
• BDSM
• intimacy
• relationship advice
• creationship
• self-awareness

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Access Consciousness

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