The Kink Consultant
by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant
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Estimated from 15 chart positions in 15 markets.
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- 🇺🇸US · Sexuality#5830K to 100K
- 🇩🇪DE · Sexuality#9930K to 100K
- 🇬🇧GB · Sexuality#1835K to 30K
- 🇨🇦CA · Sexuality#1915K to 30K
- 🇳🇱NL · Sexuality#1371K to 10K
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31K to 119K🎙 Daily cadence·81 episodes·Last published today - Monthly Reach
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104K to 396K🇺🇸25%🇩🇪25%🇬🇧8%+12 more - Active Followers
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31K to 119K
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From 22 epsHost
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How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Deepest Fantasies with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Sep 3, 2026
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Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt
Aug 27, 2026
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Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts
Aug 20, 2026
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on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood
Aug 13, 2026
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ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus
Aug 6, 2026
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 9/3/26 | How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Deepest Fantasies with Dr. Stacy Friedman | Clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman joins the podcast to discuss how to talk to your partner about your deepest fantasies, navigate midlife desire, and advocate for your sexual health.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/coachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Dr. Stacy Friedman, clinical sexologist and intimacy coach, for a conversation on fantasies, desire, and midlife changes. Dr. Stacy shares her personal experience with menopause, hormone replacement therapy, why testosterone is crucial for female libido, and how to advocate for yourself with doctors. They also discuss erectile dysfunction, pegging and anal play shame, alternative lifestyles, and why you shouldn't just ChatGPT your relationship problems.If you have ever struggled to share a fantasy, felt your desire shift in midlife, or wondered how to reconnect with your partner, this episode offers practical advice and compassionate guidance.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Dr. Stacy Friedman https://drstacyfriedman.com/https://www.instagram.com/drstacyfriedman/https://www.youtube.com/@DrStacyFriedmanhttps://tiktok.com/drstacyfriedmanhttps://threads.com/drstacyfriedmanhttps://open.spotify.com/show/1Kgh4gvyxZOMjqQZyfRYnb?si=7340b3b967d843f0Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 8/27/26 | Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt | Emotional intimacy coach Allana Pratt joins the podcast to discuss psychedelics, kink, and coming home to your body through healing trauma and somatic integration work.Join the Self-Dom Challenge: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/9fk5ewdh/checkoutThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Allana Pratt, emotional intimacy coach, author, and host of the Intimate Conversations podcast. They explore the difference between the ego and the soul, why healing trauma leads to better kink and more authentic desire, and how to stop sabotaging relationships by coming home to your body. Allana also discusses her work with clients using low-dose psilocybin and cannabis to access the subconscious, integrate wounds, and create lasting change.If you have ever felt stuck in patterns, disconnected from your body, or wondered how trauma affects your kink and relationships, this episode offers a compassionate and eye-opening conversation on healing and embodiment.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Allana Pratthttps://allanapratt.com/https://allanapratt.com/patreon/https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/https://www.youtube.com/user/AlanaPrattConnect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultDownload the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 8/20/26 | Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts | Samia Mounts returns for a deep conversation on dismantling the patriarchy, polyamory, and how we can all break free from the systems that hold us back. Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with returning guest Samia Mounts, voice actor and host of the Happy Slut podcast. They explore how patriarchy harms everyone, including men, and why dismantling it leads to better sex and deeper connection. They discuss the male loneliness epidemic, why women are not experiencing the same level of loneliness, and how men are cut off from their emotions from a young age.They also explore the connection between polyamory, sexual autonomy, and feminism, why women are reclaiming their desire, and how competitive versus caretaker dynamics play out in society. If you have ever wondered how patriarchy affects your sex life and relationships, this episode offers a compelling and thought-provoking conversation.Somatica Episode: I’m Moving For A Man?!? https://youtu.be/kkAWOiQ4UnM?si=ST0H1gxx6NV3UEyzHead to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Samia Mountshttps://www.samiamounts.com/https://www.instagram.com/samia.mountshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBkJT8ttJYCyIS8ig6gZ7pAhttps://www.tiktok.com/@samia.mountshttps://www.samiamounts.com/podcastConnect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 8/13/26 | on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood | Licensed clinician and author Caroline Hood joins the podcast to discuss the truth about female desire, the impact of mental load, and how to navigate mismatched libido in relationships. Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Caroline Hood, a licensed clinician and author of the upcoming book Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment. Caroline shares practical advice on how to start conversations about intimacy without blame, why scheduled sex can actually be helpful, and how couples can rebuild connection after years of drifting apart. They also discuss the double standards women face around pleasure, the importance of deconditioning shame, and why oral sex should never have been categorized as foreplay.If you have ever felt disconnected from your desire, struggled with mismatched libido in your relationship, or wanted to reclaim your sexual identity, this episode offers compassionate, actionable guidance.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Caroline Hoodhttps://www.desireinreallife.com/https://www.instagram.com/desireinreallife/https://substack.com/@desireinreallifeConnect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 8/6/26 | ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus | Cate Osborn aka Catieosaurus returns to discuss ADHD, kink, neurodivergent relationships, and how to build sustainable dynamics that work with your brain.Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Cate Osborn, award-winning educator and author of The ADHD Field Guide for Adults. They discuss how ADHD impacts kink dynamics, why structure is so important for neurodivergent doms, and how burnout and overcommitment can derail even the best-intentioned relationships.Cate shares what she has learned from touring her live show, the questions she gets from audiences, and why people just want to be seen. They also explore the intersection of ADHD, sex, and intimacy, and why validation and positive reinforcement are so important for doms too. If you are neurodivergent, kinky, or both, this episode offers practical advice and real talk about making your relationships work with your brain, not against it.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Catieosaurushttps://catieosaurus.com/https://www.instagram.com/catieosaurus/Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 7/30/26 | A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Kink with Melancholy Ghost | Melancholy Ghost, Missouri title holder and boundaries educator, joins the podcast to discuss how to set, communicate, and protect boundaries in kink.Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Melancholy Ghost where they discuss the difference why boundaries are essential for safe play, and what to do when someone crosses a line. Melancholy shares her framework for successful negotiations, including the CATS MEOW method she created to help people remember the key elements of communication, attentiveness, time, safety, and observing warning signs. They also explore the history of the leather community, what it means to be an asexual kinkster, and why trust must be earned and not freely given.If you have ever struggled with setting boundaries, knowing how to enforce them, or navigating negotiations in kink, this episode offers practical tools and real talk about protecting yourself and your relationships.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Melancholy Ghost:https://www.instagram.com/missmelancholyghost/Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 7/23/26 | How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom | Amanda and her dom sit down for an honest conversation about how they navigate boundaries, fear, and communication in their 24/7 dynamic.Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda shares a conversation she had with her dom a few months ago where they talk about how they navigate boundaries day to day, the fears that come up for both of them, and how they communicate through the hard stuff. Her dom shares how he models the behavior he wants to see, why consistency is everything, and how he handles bratting, resistance, and mid-scene check-ins. They also explore the role of fear in a BDSM dynamic, the difference between alpha subs and brats, and why communication is the foundation of everything. If you have ever wondered what a 24/7 dynamic actually looks like behind closed doors, this episode offers an unfiltered look at the real work that goes into making it sustainable.Head to https://www.swinkation.com/signup and use code TKC50 for up to $400 offConnect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 7/13/26 | datingself-identity+3 | Kristen Aut | Hot Girl Energy WorkshopNew Badass You+1 | — | Hot Girl Energydating advice+3 | — | 41m 19s | ||
| 7/9/26 | fetish communicationshame in relationships+3 | Miz Darling | The Kink ConsultantBDSM Checklist+1 | — | fetishcommunication+5 | — | 51m 55s | ||
| 7/2/26 | kink cruiseschastity culture+3 | Larah Sky | The Kink ConsultantInstagram+3 | — | kink cruisechastity cages+3 | — | 1h 19m 52s | ||
| 6/25/26 | kinky relationshipsvanilla relationships+4 | Simone Milasas | Access Consciousness | — | kinky relationshipsBDSM+4 | — | 41m 00s | ||
| 6/18/26 | toxic masculinityemotional masculinity+4 | Matt Salis | Sober and UnashamedUn-Toxicated+1 | — | masculinityemotional safety+3 | — | 42m 58s | ||
| 6/11/26 | kinky datingmatchmaking+3 | Shea Primus | Upper Echelon MatchmakingFetLife | — | kinky matchmakerdating advice+3 | — | 54m 57s | ||
| 6/4/26 | kinky parenting24/7 kink dynamic+4 | Athena Gale | — | — | kinky parentsex toys+3 | — | 1h 01m 46s | ||
| 5/28/26 | kinkBDSM+5 | Dr. Bruce ChalmerJudy Alexander | Couples Therapy in 7 WordsHedonism II+1 | — | kink educationBDSM misconceptions+5 | SwinkationTKC50 | 1h 02m 08s | ||
| 5/21/26 | kink in datingcommunication+3 | Connell Barrett | FeeldSwinkation+2 | — | kinkdating+5 | Hedonism IITKC50 | 48m 03s | ||
| 5/14/26 | flirtingconfidence+5 | Connell Barrett | Dating TransformationThe Kink Consultant | — | flirtingconfidence+5 | — | 59m 17s | ||
| 5/8/26 | kinkBDSM+5 | — | BDSM TestSpeak Your Desires with Confidence+2 | — | kinkBDSM+5 | — | 44m 13s | ||
| 5/1/26 | sex writingdating challenges+4 | Gabrielle Cassel | CosmopolitanGQ+1 | — | sex writerdating+5 | — | 37m 37s | ||
| 4/24/26 | dating preferencespansexuality+4 | Larah Sky | The Kink Consultant | — | datingpan+5 | — | 31m 01s | ||
| 4/16/26 | dominancesubmissive+3 | — | — | — | Domsub+6 | — | 12m 39s | ||
| 4/10/26 | life transitionsDom sub dynamics+5 | Brenda | — | — | rebuilding lifeDom sub dynamic+5 | — | 35m 29s | ||
| 4/3/26 | throuple relationshipsnon-monogamy+4 | Carnivale Risque | Carnivale Risque | — | throuplenon-monogamy+5 | — | 55m 45s | ||
| 3/26/26 | BDSMdominatrix+4 | Mistress Tash Mia | The Kink Consultant | — | dominatrixBDSM safety+5 | — | 34m 43s | ||
| 3/19/26 | Shibarirope bondage+4 | Julieta Chiara | — | — | Shibarirope bondage+5 | PromescentTKC15 | 43m 15s | ||
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Chart history for The Kink Consultant
Peaked at #33 in IS, currently #33 in IS.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| IS | — | #33 | #33 | — |
| PT | — | #41 | #41 | — |
| United States | — | #58 | #58 | — |
| IL | — | #65 | #65 | — |
| AR | — | #85 | #85 | — |
| HU | — | #89 | #89 | — |
| Germany | — | #99 | #99 | — |
| ID | — | #134 | #134 | — |
| Netherlands | — | #137 | #137 | — |
| Ireland | — | #159 | #159 | — |
| Sweden | — | #168 | #168 | — |
| Spain | — | #175 | #175 | — |
| United Kingdom | — | #183 | #183 | — |
| India | — | #185 | #185 | — |
| Canada | — | #191 | #191 | — |
Chart Positions
15 placements across 15 markets.
Chart Positions
15 placements across 15 markets.