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Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis
Jun 18, 2026
Unknown duration
Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus
Jun 11, 2026
54m 57s
How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale
Jun 4, 2026
1h 01m 46s
A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, Fetishes, and BDSM: An Interview with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander
May 28, 2026
1h 02m 08s
How to Bring Up Kink Without Sounding Creepy with Connell Barrett
May 21, 2026
48m 03s
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| 6/18/26 | ![]() Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis | Why does the word "masculinity" feel so loaded? I went looking for answers, and found the perfect person to break it down.In this episode, I sit down with Matt Salis, a behavioral health writer and researcher with a master's degree in sexual health and over a decade of experience in addiction and emotional abuse recovery. We get into the difference between toxic masculinity and what Matt calls emotional masculinity and why the manosphere is selling men a losing strategy. We also talk about emotional safety, resentment processing, the connection between vulnerability and sexual satisfaction, and how the consent culture in the kink community offers a model for healthier relationships everywhere.If you have ever wondered what masculinity looks like without the toxicity, or how emotional intimacy actually impacts your sex life, this conversation is going to change the way you think about both. Tune in, take what resonates, and keep exploring what feels authentic to you.Connect with Matt Salishttps://soberandunashamed.com/https://un-toxicated.com/Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Book A Consult Call with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultDownload the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 6/11/26 | ![]() Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus✨ | kinky datingmatchmaking+3 | Shea Primus | Upper Echelon MatchmakingFetLife | — | kinky matchmakerdating advice+3 | — | 54m 57s | |
| 6/4/26 | ![]() How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale✨ | kinky parenting24/7 kink dynamic+4 | Athena Gale | — | — | kinky parentsex toys+3 | — | 1h 01m 46s | |
| 5/28/26 | ![]() A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, Fetishes, and BDSM: An Interview with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander✨ | kinkBDSM+5 | Dr. Bruce ChalmerJudy Alexander | Couples Therapy in 7 WordsHedonism II+1 | — | kink educationBDSM misconceptions+5 | SwinkationTKC50 | 1h 02m 08s | |
| 5/21/26 | ![]() How to Bring Up Kink Without Sounding Creepy with Connell Barrett✨ | kink in datingcommunication+3 | Connell Barrett | FeeldSwinkation+2 | — | kinkdating+5 | Hedonism IITKC50 | 48m 03s | |
| 5/14/26 | ![]() Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett✨ | flirtingconfidence+5 | Connell Barrett | Dating TransformationThe Kink Consultant | — | flirtingconfidence+5 | — | 59m 17s | |
| 5/8/26 | ![]() Answering Your Most Common Kink Questions✨ | kinkBDSM+5 | — | BDSM TestSpeak Your Desires with Confidence+2 | — | kinkBDSM+5 | — | 44m 13s | |
| 5/1/26 | ![]() The Life And Loves Of A Sex Writer with Gabrielle Cassel✨ | sex writingdating challenges+4 | Gabrielle Cassel | CosmopolitanGQ+1 | — | sex writerdating+5 | — | 37m 37s | |
| 4/24/26 | ![]() Larah Sky’s Dating Preferences: Complicated, Specific, and Slightly Unhinged✨ | dating preferencespansexuality+4 | Larah Sky | The Kink Consultant | — | datingpan+5 | — | 31m 01s | |
| 4/16/26 | ![]() How To Dom When You’re A Sub✨ | dominancesubmissive+3 | — | — | — | Domsub+6 | — | 12m 39s | |
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| 4/10/26 | ![]() I’m Rebuilding My Life…Again✨ | life transitionsDom sub dynamics+5 | Brenda | — | — | rebuilding lifeDom sub dynamic+5 | — | 35m 29s | |
| 4/3/26 | ![]() How A Kinky Throuple Relationship Actually Works with Carnivale Risque✨ | throuple relationshipsnon-monogamy+4 | Carnivale Risque | Carnivale Risque | — | throuplenon-monogamy+5 | — | 55m 45s | |
| 3/26/26 | ![]() Dominatrix 101: Negotiation, Limits, and Creating a Safe BDSM Scene with Mistress Tash Mia✨ | BDSMdominatrix+4 | Mistress Tash Mia | The Kink Consultant | — | dominatrixBDSM safety+5 | — | 34m 43s | |
| 3/19/26 | ![]() What Is Shibari? A Conversation On Rope Bondage with Julieta Chiara✨ | Shibarirope bondage+4 | Julieta Chiara | — | — | Shibarirope bondage+5 | PromescentTKC15 | 43m 15s | |
| 3/12/26 | ![]() Behind The Scenes of Rouge: The Sexiest Show In Vegas with Zion and Poppy✨ | kinky showsaudience interaction+3 | ZionPoppy | Rouge | VegasStrat+1 | RougeVegas show+6 | — | 58m 06s | |
| 3/5/26 | ![]() How To Use Hypnotherapy for Better Sex with Jordan Wolan✨ | hypnotherapysexual freedom+4 | Jordan Wolan | — | — | hypnotherapybetter sex+5 | — | 42m 57s | |
| 2/26/26 | ![]() Sex Magic, Sigils, and Masturbating to Your Manifestations: A Conversation on Sex Alchemy with Lucy Baldwin✨ | sex magicmanifestation+4 | Lucy Baldwin | Penetrate Radio PodcastThe Seven: Living With The Planets Podcast+1 | — | sex magicmanifestation+5 | — | 30m 41s | |
| 2/19/26 | ![]() Can Doms Be Brats? The Debate That Broke KinkTok. A Discussion On Kink Theory, BDSM and Power Exchange✨ | BDSMpower exchange+5 | Tripp Terrier | Subspace | — | domsbrats+7 | — | 59m 56s | |
| 2/12/26 | ![]() How to Prepare for Your First Kinky Cruise with Concations and Carnivale Risque | Not sure what to expect on a kinky cruise? You're about to find out, and it's way more fun (and safe) than you think! In this episode, I’m not just going to have one, not two, but four guests! I sit down with Lee from Concasions and the powerhouse team behind Carnivale Risqué (Tank, Goddess Ellez, and Obsidian) to talk about what it's really like on a kinky cruise. These industry veterans have been teaching kink at lifestyle parties for over a decade, and they break down how they turned empty dungeons into packed playspaces by making BDSM approachable, glamorous, and fun. We dig into the upcoming Kinky Cruise in April, what to expect as a first-timer, how consent culture creates the safest party spaces, and why "swingsters" (swingers + kinksters) are now a whole community. They also get real about living as a throuple, teaching workshops on unleashing your authentic self, and why vulnerability is the sexiest thing you can bring to any relationship.This episode is part prep guide, part inspiration, and 100% permission to explore. If you've been thinking about attending a lifestyle event or just want to understand what makes these spaces so magnetic, this conversation will get you ready to dive in.Don’t let the Kinky Cruise sail without you! Go to http://www.kinkycruise.com and use the code TKC50 to get $50 offDownload the Bliss Cruise app and Celebrity Cruise app to plan your scheduleConnect with Tank, Goddess Ellez, and Obsidianhttps://carnivalerisque.com/https://www.instagram.com/carnivalerisque/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063613538670Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/https://www.amandadames.com/thereadinglist | — | ||||||
| 2/5/26 | ![]() Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Getting Soft? How to have Better Sex: A Conversation with Promescent CEO, Jeff Abraham | Better sex isn't a luxury, it's accessible. And if you're not exploring what's out there to improve your intimacy, you're leaving pleasure on the table.In this episode, I get to sit down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, for an honest conversation about sexual wellness, performance anxiety, and why 70% of people using delay spray don't even have premature ejaculation, they just want better sex. Jeff shares his unexpected journey from semiconductor engineering to running a sexual wellness company, and breaks down the real stats on the "arousal gap" (spoiler: the average man lasts 5 minutes and 42 seconds while the average woman needs 18 minutes). We dig into why delay products have gotten a bad rap, how Promescent's formula is different, and what Vita Flux can do for blood flow, libido, and natural lubrication. Jeff also gets real about communication, foreplay that starts hours before sex, and why vulnerability is the foundation of great intimacy.This episode is practical, sex-positive, and full of solutions. If you want better connection, longer-lasting sex, or just want to level up your intimacy game, this conversation will give you the tools to do it.Want longer-lasting sex without losing sensation? Get 15% off at Promescent.com/tkc15Episode Highlights:00:00 Changing the Conversation Around Intimacy27:34 Exploring Sexual Frequency and Refractory Periods29:19 The Impact of Good Intimacy on Attraction31:38 Addressing Anxiety and Intimacy33:30 Menopause and Women's Sexual Health35:36 Innovations in Female Arousal Products40:21 The Rise of Male Masturbatory Products53:58 The Importance of Communication in Sexual RelationshipsConnect with Jeff Abraham https://www.linkedin.com/in/technicalresources/https://www.promescent.com/Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Joins the Couples Retreathttps://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlistDownload the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Join the Kinky Book Club:https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkoutCourses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store | — | ||||||
| 1/30/26 | ![]() Behind The Scenes of A Non-Monogamouse Relationship (And Why It Actually Works) | Non-monogamy isn't actually that complicated…our fear of talking about it is. And that fear keeps way too many people stuck pretending they want something they don't.In this episode, I sit down with Samia Mounts, creator and host of the ClosetEd podcast, for a raw conversation about non-monogamy, jealousy, and why emotional maturity matters more than the number of partners you have. Samia shares her journey from believing in "the one" to discovering she's wired for multiple loves. We talk about her marriage that became a friendship, navigating new relationship energy, and the difference between boundaries and control. She gets real about the mistakes she made, the red flags she ignored, and what it takes to build trust when relationships shift.If you have ever felt like you were meant to love more than one person and had no idea what to do with that truth, this conversation is for you.Episode Highlights: 00:00 Why Everyone Is In “The Closet” and Society's Norms12:17 Polyamory and Personal Experiences32:42 Defining Relationship Agreements and Boundaries34:54 Navigating Non-Monogamous Relationships42:19 Polyamory vs. Consensual Non-MonogamyConnect with Samia Mounts https://www.samiamounts.com/https://www.instagram.com/samia.mountshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBkJT8ttJYCyIS8ig6gZ7pAhttps://www.tiktok.com/@samia.mountshttps://www.samiamounts.com/podcastBook a Consult with Amanda Here:https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consultConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ | — | ||||||
| 1/23/26 | ![]() Intimacy Isn't A Feeling, It's A Skill: An Interview With The Somatica Founders | What if intimacy didn’t have to feel so hard, awkward, or overthought?In this episode, I sit down with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, the founders of the Somatica Method and the two people who completely changed the way I understand intimacy, sex, and relationships. We talk about what Somatica actually is, why it feels so different from anything most of us have ever learned about intimacy, and why practicing connection in real time can be deeply transformative.This episode is personal for me. Somatica is the training that helped me become The Kink Consultant, and it reshaped how I show up in my body, my relationships, and my work. If you have ever felt stuck in your intimacy, overwhelmed by shame, or curious about a more embodied, human way to connect, this conversation gives you a real look at what is possible when everything is allowed to be talked about, explored, and met with care.Episode Highlights 00:00 What is Somatica?11:03 Understanding Somatica Sessions24:49 Understanding Core Wounds in Relationships27:54 Application Process for Somatica Training35:23 Virgin Island: A New TV Show40:53 The Impact of Social Media on IntimacyLearn more about Somatica:https://www.somaticainstitute.com/https://www.instagram.com/somatica_institute/https://www.instagram.com/celesteanddanielleofficial/Become a Certified Somatica Coach: https://www.somaticainstitute.com/ Use TKC250 to get $750 off!Join the Couples Retreat! https://www.amandadames.com/couples-retreatOrder Playground Miracle Melts here! https://helloplayground.com/products/miracle-melts-hydrating-insertConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ | — | ||||||
| 1/15/26 | ![]() Sex Crimes Prosecutor Turned Women’s Intimacy Coach - A Conversation with Rena Martine | Let's talk about the thing no one wants to touch: DDLG, innocence play, and why "daddy" has become the internet's new favorite word. In today’s episode, I sit down with Rena Martine, author and former sex crimes prosecutor turned women's intimacy coach, for one of the most honest conversations about taboo fantasies, shame, and reclaiming pleasure without apology. We dig into why powerful women crave submission, what innocence play actually means (spoiler: it's not what you think), how survivors sometimes use kink for healing, and why society will sell you slutty Halloween costumes but shame you for the desires behind them.This episode is permission-giving, unflinching, and absolutely necessary. If you've ever felt shame for wanting something "wrong," this conversation is your permission slip to want what you want.Episode Highlights: 00:00 Rena's Journey from Prosecutor to Intimacy Coach15:15 Understanding DDLG and Age Play28:37 Exploring Society's Double Standards29:38 Privilege and Normalizing Taboo Discussions31:09 Non-Monogamy and Societal Judgments32:16 Polyamory and Public Perception37:25 Kink Acceptance and Media Representation42:54 Navigating DDLG Dynamics47:48 Empowerment Through KinkConnect with Rena Martinehttps://www.renamartine.com/bookhttps://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/Join the Couples Retreat! https://www.amandadames.com/couples-retreatOrder Playground Miracle Melts here! https://helloplayground.com/products/miracle-melts-hydrating-insertConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ | — | ||||||
| 1/8/26 | ![]() Biohacking Your Orgasm with Susan Bratton | You heard it here first: sex gets better as you age. Don’t believe me? Listen to this episode.I sit down with Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and sex educator, for a refreshing conversation about pleasure, confidence, and why desire does not have an expiration date. We talk about how so many people are taught to expect sex to fade over time, and why that belief is doing way more damage than aging ever could. Susan shares what actually helps couples stay curious, connected, and turned on long term, especially when shame and routine start creeping in. We also get into kink, power dynamics, and sexual longevity. Susan explains how confidence, embodiment, and caring for your body play a huge role in pleasure as you get older, and why performance-focused sex often gets in the way of real intimacy.This episode is permission-filled, honest, and surprisingly hopeful. If you want proof that your best sex might still be ahead of you, this conversation will absolutely change your mind.Episode Highlights: 00:00 Maintaining Sexual Health and Stamina25:53 Embracing Confidence and Sexuality27:43 Maintaining Sexual Health with Age29:43 The Role of Nitric Oxide30:48 The Benefits of Pumping32:20 Advanced Treatments for Sexual Health34:26 Red Light Therapy and LubricantsConnect with Susan Brattonhttps://betterlover.comhttps://getflowfree.comhttps://getglowbelow.comhttps://pumpingguide.comJoin the Couples Retreat! https://www.amandadames.com/couples-retreatGet your BDSM Checklist here: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlistConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ | — | ||||||
| 1/1/26 | ![]() Why Obsession Happens and Why Fighting It Makes It Worse with Kirsten Aut | Being obsessed with someone can be so embarrassing. Frankly, you barely even know this person but somehow your brain has decided that this person is now the main character of your life. Been there, done that. In this episode, I sit down with my coach, Kirsten Aut to talk about obsession in a way that feels honest, relatable, and way less shameful. We unpack why obsession happens, why trying to “just stop thinking about it” never works, and how desire, fantasy, and attachment get all tangled together when someone lights up your nervous system just enough to throw you off balance.If you have ever thought, “Why am I like this?” or caught yourself spiraling over someone you barely dated, this episode will make you feel seen, understood, and a lot less alone.Episode Highlights: 00:00 Understanding Obsession and Attachment12:01 Realizations and Reflections on Obsession27:20 Growth Mindset in Relationships29:37 Navigating Modern Dating35:01 Trusting Your Intuition38:51 Manifestation and Personal GrowthConnect with Kristen Authttps://www.newbadassyou.com/https://www.instagram.com/thekristenaut/https://www.tiktok.com/@thekristenautJoin the Couples Retreat! https://www.amandadames.com/couples-retreatGet your BDSM Checklist here: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlistConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ | — | ||||||
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Chart Positions
13 placements across 13 markets.
Chart Positions
13 placements across 13 markets.
