258. The Invisible War Being Fought In Your Mind Every Single Day And How To Win It with Paul Rees

258. The Invisible War Being Fought In Your Mind Every Single Day And How To Win It with Paul Rees

May 7, 2026 · 1h 22m · Episode 258

About this episode

Kris Gethin discusses mental toughness and resilience with Paul Rees, emphasizing the importance of small daily decisions over extreme moments.

Most people believe that mental toughness is built in extreme moments, in war zones, in crisis, in rock bottom. But what this conversation reveals is that it is actually built in the smallest decisions of the most ordinary days, and that every time you negotiate with discomfort, skip the hard thing, and choose the easier path, you are not resting. You are rehearsing surrender. In this episode of The Kris Gethin Podcast, I sit down with Paul Rees for a conversation that will stay with you long after you finish listening and completely change how you think about the challenges you face every single day. Walk away understanding that the soft life being sold to you right now is not comfort. It is the slow erosion of everything that makes you capable of handling what actually matters. Paul Rees is a decorated British Army veteran who served five operational tours including Northern Ireland, Kosovo, Bosnia, and Iraq, holds a Master's degree in counterterrorism from St. Andrews University, and is a 1988 Taekwondo world champion and third dan black belt. He spent years operating as a counter-terrorism expert in Libya under a bounty placed on his head by Muammar Gaddafi, surviving…

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Host: Kris Gethin

Guest: Paul Rees

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Organizations: British Army

Places: Northern Ireland, Kosovo, Bosnia, Iraq, Libya

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