About this episode

Mel Robbins discusses how to effectively support loved ones during difficult times with insights from Dr. Lisa Damour.

Learn how to truly help someone you love. When someone you care about is going through a difficult time, you can make a meaningful difference with a few simple words. Today, clinical psychologist and three-time New York Times bestselling author Dr. Lisa Damour teaches you how to offer the right kind of support for your kid, partner, or friend without panicking, taking control, or trying to fix everything. You’ll learn 3 questions that help you understand whether someone needs to vent, needs more support, or may need professional help. Dr. Damour also explains why painful emotions are not always a sign that something is wrong, how to recognize when coping has become harmful, and why giving advice before understanding what someone needs can backfire. This episode is one of Mel’s favorite conversations on The Mel Robbins Podcast, and she’s bringing it back with a brand new introduction and new insights for right now. In it, Mel gets personal about supporting her husband through depression, parenting teenagers through intense emotions, and the mistakes she made when she tried to solve every problem. In this episode, you’ll learn: -The exact words to use when someone shuts down or…

People in this episode

Host: Mel Robbins

Guest: Dr. Lisa Damour

Topics covered

• support
• mental health
• emotional well-being
• communication
• relationships

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