
Always take what sounds like a threat seriously
From The Overwhelmed Brain by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
May 10, 2026 · 40 min · Episode 664
About this episode
The episode discusses the importance of taking threats seriously and recognizing emotional abuse tactics.
People who threaten, belittle, or use "jokes" about violence are practicing control, and they will gaslight you into submission if you don't take their threats or "jokes" seriously. Don't reward coercion with compliance.
People in this episode
Host: Paul Colaianni
Topics covered
- emotional abuse
- control
- gaslighting
- threats
- compliance
Keywords
- threats
- emotional abuse
- gaslighting
- control
- compliance
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