Will you notice me? What children learn from how we respond to their distress

Will you notice me? What children learn from how we respond to their distress

July 12, 2026 · 40 min · Episode 162

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This episode explores how children's distress signals their need to be seen and how caregivers can shape their expectations through responses.

What if children's distress is not just a problem to solve, but a signal of their need to be seen? This article and podcast episode explore how children's expectations about availability and effectiveness of support from close others develop through repeated interactions with multiple caregivers . Using a psychological lens - in particular looking at attachment theory - we explore how educators and parents/carers can shape these expectations of care through their everyday responses to children's distress. Read the article here: https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/ w ill-you-notice-me-what-children-learn-from-how-we-respond-to-their-distress/ This episode is in partnership with BookedIn BookedIn is a CPD booking platform that connects organisations with verified speakers, trainers and consultants – so you can find the right fit faster, based on your brief, audience and outcomes . You can discover , compare , and manage bookings in one place – designed to help you book with more clarity and confidence. Whether you're booking CPD or are a speaker yourself, they're opening early access soon, and if you want to be first to hear when it's live, join the waiting list today! To find out…

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