About this episode

Ciara and Richard explore the concept of the 'one that got away' and the romanticization of past relationships.

Why do we romanticise the person we didn't end up with? Ciara and Richard explore the “one that got away”, why our memories can make the past look better than it was, and whether we’re missing the person or the life we imagined with them. They Mess You Up, with Dr Ciara Kelly and Dr Richard Hogan, taking on the issues people struggle with behind closed doors.  Follow the pod and get in touch by sending a message on Instagram @TheyMessYouUpPod New episode every Wednesday and a Bonus Episode “Messy Bits” on Mondays!

People in this episode

Hosts: Dr. Ciara Kelly, Dr. Richard Hogan

Topics covered

• romanticization
• relationships
• memory
• nostalgia
• personal growth

Keywords

• romanticize
• memories
• relationships
• nostalgia
• personal growth

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