About this episode

Nicole Byer and photographer Kim Newmoney discuss managing a harem of seven men and share insights on dating and self-presentation.

Nicole's photographer, Kim Newmoney (VOGUE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE) chats with her about the logistics and managing a harem of 7 hot men. They talk about men who claim they want casual relationships but get territorial when another guy whose interest, and Kim shares what it took to walk away from a 7 year relationship with mismatched life goals. As a professional photographer, Kim drops her advice on taking your dating app profile pictures, getting comfortable on camera, and looking effortlessly sexy. Plus, Kim and Nicole reminisce the guerrila-style shooting behind Nicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: THE FAT GIRL'S GUIDE TO BEING #BRAVE AND NOT A DEJECTED, MELANCHOLY, DOWN-IN-THE-DUMPS WEEPING FAT GIRL IN A BIKINI. Buy the book here: https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/buy-my-book WWYDM is hiring a part-time podcasting apprentice! Learn more and apply here . Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: » Smileset : Listeners of our show get an additional 35% discount when they go to https://smileset.com/dateme . With this discount, you can get the smile of your dreams for under 13…

People in this episode

Host: Nicole Byer

Guest: Kim Newmoney

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• photography
• casual relationships
• self-image
• personal growth

Keywords

• harem
• dating advice
• photography tips
• casual relationships
• self-confidence
• relationship goals

Sponsors

Smileset, Hinge, Planned Parenthood, Warby Parker

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: VOGUE

Books & works: #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: THE FAT GIRL'S GUIDE TO BEING #BRAVE AND NOT A DEJECTED, MELANCHOLY, DOWN-IN-THE-DUMPS WEEPING FAT GIRL IN A BIKINI

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