About this episode

Nicole Byer and Jarvis Johnson discuss the impact of AI on dating and personal relationships.

YouTuber Jarvis Johnson (Host of Sad Boyz ) joins Nicole to discuss the dystopian reality of how AI has changed the dating landscape, from people now dating their AI and the trend of men using ChatGPT to automatically swipe and chat with women for them. Jarvis opens up about his regret about having a public relationship and why he now chooses to keep his life private after a very public internet breakup. They also discuss how neurodivergence impacts relationships, why undiagnosed ADHD can hold someone back, Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), medication they are taking, and how Nicole is managing her PMDD. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: » Audible : Find your next laugh on Audible. Stories that speak to you. New members can start listening with a 30-day free trial at https://Audible.com/DATEME » Hers : Sponsored by Hers. Visit https://forhers.com/dateme to get a personalized, affordable plan that gets you. » Hinge : Listen to No Ordinary Love for free on Spotify! https://hin.ge/WhyWontYouDateMe » Planned Parenthood : Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at…

People in this episode

Host: Nicole Byer

Guest: Jarvis Johnson

Topics covered

• AI in dating
• neurodivergence
• public relationships
• privacy
• mental health
• dating trends

Keywords

• AI dating
• ChatGPT
• neurodivergence
• ADHD
• RSD
• PMDD
• public breakup
• dating landscape

Sponsors

Audible, Hers, Hinge, Planned Parenthood, Squarespace

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