265. Yes, You Can Become More Secure While Actively Dating w/ Trevor Hanson
About this episode
Talia Koren discusses attachment styles and emotional healing in dating with therapist Trevor Hanson.
I'm chatting with Trevor Hanson , a licensed marriage and family therapist. He and his team at The Art Of Healing help people move from anxious attachment to secure attachment in a structured, results-oriented way. We get into what anxious attachment actually looks like in dating for both men and women, why you can feel totally secure when you're single but completely fall apart once a relationship starts, and what emotionally corrective experiences are, and why they're what actually rewires your nervous system, not just reading more books or gaining more self-awareness. Trevor also shares why you don't need to be fully healed before you date, how conflict, followed by repair, builds real security over time, the problem with using AI to write your texts, and more. At the end, we tackle a dating dilemma from a guy who's not sure how to follow up after sending someone a rose on Hinge. CONNECT WITH TREVOR Trevor's IG THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Boll & Branch: Get 15% off the softest bedding at bollandbranch.com/dating Quince: Get 10% off and 365-day returns at quince.com/talia Wayfair: Get your outdoor space summer-ready! wayfair.com CONNECT WITH…
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