
The healed emotional abuser is more than just a behavioral change
From Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
March 13, 2026 · 52 min · Episode 163
About this episode
The episode discusses the transformation of emotionally abusive individuals and the positive changes they can undergo.
I've seen emotionally abusive people heal and become completely different people. You wouldn't even recognize them! And when you no longer recognize the person who's hurt you over and over again, that might be a very good thing.
People in this episode
Host: Paul Colaianni
Topics covered
- emotional abuse
- healing
- behavioral change
- relationships
- personal transformation
Keywords
- emotional abuser
- healing
- transformation
- recognition
- relationships
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