#268: When You're Not Attracted to Healthy Partners (Ask Steph)

#268: When You're Not Attracted to Healthy Partners (Ask Steph)

June 24, 2026 · 9 min · Season 1 · Episode 268

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In this episode, Stephanie Rigg discusses the challenges of pursuing connections with partners who are great but lack physical attraction.

Register for my upcoming live workshop here In today's Ask Steph episode, I'm answering the question of "How long to keep pursuing a connection with someone who's great and ticks all my boxes — except that I'm not physically attracted to them?" I share some thoughts on why this can happen — particularly if your attraction template has historically gravitated towards inconsistent and unpredictable connections — and how long you should wait and see before calling it.

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