After Action Report #23

After Action Report #23

From Savage Lovecast by Dan Savage

April 3, 2026 · 14 min · Episode 23

About this episode

Ember, a trans man, shares his experience of hosting a sex party and the etiquette involved.

Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own. It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME. What else happened at this party? Do you have a story to share of a leap into the sexual unknown? Write us at Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

People in this episode

Guest: Ember

Topics covered

  • transgender
  • sex parties
  • etiquette
  • sexual exploration

Keywords

  • sexual unknown
  • dinner party etiquette
  • hosting

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