About this episode
This episode discusses a woman's dilemma over bachelorette party expenses, the ethics of informing an estranged friend about non-consensual porn, and features humor writer Eli McCann discussing his online clash with Mitt Romney.
A woman was invited to the bachelorette party for her co-worker's wedding, which required costly travel. She was presented with a bill to cover all of the expenses of the bride to be. The caller was just laid off her job and simply cannot afford this. Now the bride is miffed, and the friendship is strained. It's an outrage! Oopsie daisy! A woman came across porn featuring an old estranged friend.The sketchy video looks like the ex-friend wasn't aware that she was being filmed. Should the caller reach out and let her know it's out there? On the Magnum: Meet the man who enraged Mitt Romney! Humor writer Eli McCann is a wholesome, married, monogamous, gay humor writer from Salt Lake City. Hear how he drew the ire of the failed Presidential candidate in an online kerfuffle. And, bottom-feeders rejoice! They discuss the differences between Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Apparently, one makes you sad and the other makes you cackle. Also, did you know that Salt Lake City is actually liberal? It is! Listen to this super-fun convo. A woman has started seeing a younger man who has no experience with toys. His wee weeny isn't big enough for her, so he'd…
People in this episode
Host: Dan Savage
Guest: Eli McCann
Topics covered
- bachelorette party
- friendship
- porn
- estranged friend
- humor
- politics
- relationships
- sexuality
Keywords
- costly travel
- laid off
- outrage
- intimidation
- younger man
- toys
- Salt Lake City
Sponsors
Squarespace
Mentioned in this episode
Products: Savage, Helix, Squarespace
Books & works: Savage Lovecast, Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
Places: Salt Lake City
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