The loneliness of having standards.

The loneliness of having standards.

September 9, 2026 · 60 min · Season 6 · Episode 16

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Kit Costello discusses evolving dating standards and the loneliness that can accompany high expectations.

One day someone will meet my standards but until then, am I going to be lonely? In this weeks episode I discuss my recent understanding that I have evolved out of previous standards when it comes to dating and find myself in a place where I expect more. However when what I expect has yet to come, how do I stop myself from going back to old habits? Thank you for being here. Enjoy ☆ Find podcast merch here!⁠ ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/category/all-products⁠ Thank you to Eugenia Melian (Author of WildChilds) for sponsoring this season of Self Interrupted with Kit Costello. Purchase WildChilds here: ⁠ ⁠https://www.kitcostello.com/wildchilds⁠

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