how to date once you realize you don't need a man

About this episode

This episode discusses how to approach dating from a place of self-love and confidence rather than neediness.

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People in this episode

Host: Tam Kaur

Topics covered

• self-love
• dating
• healing
• confidence
• high standards
• independence

Keywords

• self-love
• dating advice
• healing patterns
• confidence in dating
• high standards
• independence
• rewiring beliefs

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Mentioned in this episode

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