Episode 500: How To Have Amazing Sex (Essential Listen)

About this episode

This episode revisits a conversation about enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy with Dr. Emily Jamea.

Most of us know the basics of sex, but having truly great sex is another story. Today, we’re revisiting one of my favorite conversations from the archives about increasing sexual pleasure, deepening intimacy, and making sex more satisfying for everyone involved. My guest is Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and author of the book Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Some of the topics we explore include: How can changing up your masturbation routine enhance pleasure and partnered sex? What are some tips for better oral sex? How can you make intercourse and anal sex more pleasurable? What increases the odds of mutual orgasm? Why is it important to step outside your sexual comfort zone sometimes? To learn more about Emily, visit her website at emilyjamea.com. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! If you’re looking for a dating experience where you can explore on your own terms, check out Feeld, a dating app for the curious. Go to feeld.co or download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. This spring, give yourself the kind of comfort…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Guest: Dr. Emily Jamea

Topics covered

• sexual pleasure
• intimacy
• satisfaction
• masturbation
• oral sex
• intercourse
• mutual orgasm

Keywords

• sex
• pleasure
• intimacy
• masturbation
• oral sex
• intercourse
• mutual orgasm
• comfort zone
• sexual health

Sponsors

Feeld, Cozy Earth, Sexual Health Alliance

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: AASECT

Books & works: Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy

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