About this episode

Ali Kolbert joins the hosts to discuss navigating comphet and her viral queer movie.

This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER MOVIE?! You gotta tune in. SUPPORT ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert Watch her queer short film, “NO SEX,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpTo1U8ye-0 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch…

People in this episode

Hosts: Ashley Gavin, Alex Vrahas

Guest: Ali Kolbert

Topics covered

• comphet
• comedy
• queer culture
• friendship
• viral media

Keywords

• comphet
• queer
• comedy
• Ali Kolbert
• New York Times
• viral movie
• friendship

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: New York Times

Books & works: NO SEX

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