About this episode

Sabrina Wu joins Ashley Gavin to discuss their experiences with queer identity and relationships in a humorous and candid conversation.

(TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and actor who you've seen on Joy Ride, Murderbot, and Abbot Elementary — but today they’re in the apartment to pop their queer cherry! We discuss realizing you’re gay when young, the bizarre ways you explore at that age, genderqueer identity vs. perception, acting, and getting called a filthy little PIG. Ashley reconnects with a messy fling. Lizzy experiments with polyamory. SUPPORT SABRINA WU: Watch them LIVE on tour: https://linktr.ee/sabwu Watch Murderbot on Apple TV: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/murderbot/umc.cmc.5owrzntj9v1gpg31wshflud03 Watch Dying for Sex on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/series/423f6320-b55b-453b-a85f-dea05bd495d9 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asabrinawu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asabrinawu/ Twitter: https://x.com/asabrinawu FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates…

People in this episode

Host: Ashley Gavin

Guest: Sabrina Wu

Topics covered

• queer identity
• comedy
• self-discovery
• polyamory
• genderqueer
• relationships

Keywords

• queer virginity
• self harm
• genderqueer identity
• comedy podcast
• polyamory
• Sabrina Wu

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Joy Ride, Murderbot, Abbot Elementary, Dying for Sex

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