Savage Lovecast Episode 1011

Savage Lovecast Episode 1011

From Savage Lovecast by Dan Savage

March 24, 2026 · 54 min · Episode 1011

About this episode

Dan Savage discusses relationship challenges, anal sex exploration, and interviews Natalie Davis about her journey in polyamory.

A woman in a new relationship isn't sure this one's going to work out. He's a great guy, but the sex is lacking because his penis is too small for her. Is there a way to learn to enjoy the sex eventually? Here's a question for you: "How long til anal?" After seeing Heated Rivalry, a married man and his wife are exploring anal sex. They are taking their sweet time, but he wonders how long they should expect it to take before it becomes comfortable for them both. (Who's doing whom? He never says!) On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Natalie Davis. She is the author "Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory" and the editor of the online publication "Polyamory Today." They talk about her journey from PUD to enthusiastic advocate for open relationships. Last week, a woman wondered how many *other* women could experience 60-70 orgasms, like she does. This week, we close with a man who "worries" that he's having SO MUCH SEX that he's coming too much. Should he call 911? People. Really? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at ⁠Squarespace.com/Savage⁠ and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage…

People in this episode

Host: Dan Savage

Guest: Natalie Davis

Topics covered

  • relationships
  • sexuality
  • polyamory
  • orgasms
  • anal sex

Keywords

  • sex
  • orgasms
  • open relationships
  • comfort

Sponsors

Squarespace, VB Health

Mentioned in this episode

Products: Magnum, Savage, Drive Boost, Load Boost, Soaking Wet

Books & works: Savage Lovecast, Heated Rivalry, Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory, Polyamory Today

Places: Atlanta, Chicago, Washington DC

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