
Building Your Foundation of Self—Creating Boundaries, Not Walls
From Self Talk with Rachel Astarte by Rachel Astarte, LMFT
November 4, 2025 · 15 min · Season 2 · Episode 9
About this episode
In this episode, Rachel discusses the purpose of healthy boundaries as acts of compassion that protect inner peace and foster authentic connections.
Send Rachel a text message. In this episode of Self Talk, we discuss the true purpose of healthy boundaries—and why they’re actually acts of compassion, not separation. Beginning with the core mantra, “My boundaries benefit both of us,” we'll reframe boundaries as soulful practices that protect our inner peace while deepening authentic connection. We'll also unpack the difference between walls and boundaries, the role of the underdeveloped ego in boundary resistance, and how consulting ...
People in this episode
Host: Rachel
Topics covered
- boundaries
- self-compassion
- authentic connection
- ego
- inner peace
Keywords
- healthy boundaries
- walls vs boundaries
- soulful practices
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: Building Your Foundation of Self, Self Talk
More episodes of Self Talk with Rachel Astarte
- Living the Foundation of Self—Separate Thought From Self: Awareness and the Eternal Self · June 2, 2026 · 16 min
- Living the Foundation of Self—Receive, Don’t Seek: Manifestation Reimagined · May 5, 2026 · 14 min
- Living the Foundation of Self—Reclaim Your Energy · April 7, 2026 · 20 min
- Living the Foundation of Self—Meditate on This · March 3, 2026 · 19 min
- Living the Foundation of Self—Bring Fear Closer · February 3, 2026 · 14 min
- Living the Foundation of Self—Be Genuinely Curious · January 6, 2026 · 20 min
Explore listener stats, chart rankings, contacts and more on the Self Talk with Rachel Astarte podcast page.