Your Partner Is Not The Problem...The Cycle Is

Your Partner Is Not The Problem...The Cycle Is

March 26, 2026 · 25 min

About this episode

This episode discusses how relationship cycles can disrupt communication and connection, emphasizing that the cycle, not the partner, is the true issue.

In this episode we discuss how the cycle can take over the relationship and break down communication and connection. We often want to blame our partner, but the true culprit is the cycle. Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship. Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/ FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment : https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide Find us on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/ Follow Us on YouTube: YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp Coaching Program: Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey. Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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