154 What is direct hurt versus indirect hurt? And why does it matter?

154 What is direct hurt versus indirect hurt? And why does it matter?

From Two Therapists Talking by David Thompson & Sherie Christensen

February 23, 2026 · 20 min · Episode 154

About this episode

David and Sherie discuss the differences between direct and indirect hurt in relationships and their implications.

David & Sherie talk about direct hurt versus indirect hurt, what those are, and why they matter. In relationships, intention and motive matter a lot! We still need to address and change hurtful behavior, but we don't want to make hurtful behavior more hurtful by how we interpret it, making reconciliation even more difficult. Listen to learn more!

People in this episode

Hosts: David Thompson, Sherie Christensen

Topics covered

  • direct hurt
  • indirect hurt
  • relationships
  • intention
  • motive
  • hurtful behavior
  • reconciliation

Keywords

  • direct hurt
  • indirect hurt
  • relationships
  • hurtful behavior
  • reconciliation
  • intention
  • motive

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