About this episode
Jennifer Hadley discusses how blaming others can trap us in pain and explores the relationship between anger, projection, and fear.
What if every time you blamed someone, you were actually locking in the very pain you wanted to escape? In this episode, Jennifer Hadley explores Chapter 7, Section 8 of A Course in Miracles - "The Unbelievable Belief" - and unpacks a fundamental law of the mind: without projection, there can be no anger; without extension, there can be no love. Jennifer confesses that anger used to be her favorite emotion - and explains how she came to see that projection is always an expression of fear. Using vivid examples from insecurity to homophobia, she reveals why we attack in others what we hate in ourselves. She also shares why taking total responsibility - with zero blame - is the counterintuitive way out of suffering. If you've been stuck in conflict and can't figure out why, this episode might show you exactly where it's coming from. To learn more about A Course in Miracles please visit Powerofloveministry.net. For the transcript of this episode and more please visit LivingACourseinMiracles.com. No matter how intense the pain, we can find our way out of the suffering. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
People in this episode
Host: Jennifer Hadley
Topics covered
- anger
- projection
- responsibility
- fear
- self-reflection
- conflict resolution
Keywords
- anger
- projection
- responsibility
- fear
- self-hate
- conflict
- A Course in Miracles
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Power of Love Ministry, Living A Course in Miracles
Books & works: A Course in Miracles, The Unbelievable Belief
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