Kaila Yu: Challenging Stereotypes and Defetishizing Asian Women

Kaila Yu: Challenging Stereotypes and Defetishizing Asian Women

From All About Change by Jay Ruderman

January 5, 2026 · 29 min · Season 1 · Episode 94

About this episode

Kaila Yu discusses her memoir and the challenges faced by Asian American women.

Kaila Yu lived many lives before she decided to write a memoir. As an actress, musician, and import model, Kaila learned firsthand about all the ways it is challenging to be Asian American, particularly as a woman. But she didn’t write about that experience until seeing her fellow Asian Americans attacked and vilified in 2020. Now a travel, food and culture writer, she has released a memoir titled Fetishized: A Reckoning with Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty. In this book of essays, Kaila challenges the pressures Asian American women face to perform for the white male gaze and details some of the history surrounding that social pressure. With Fetishized, Kaila is shining a bright light on a specific prejudice in our country and I am excited to amplify that light with our conversation today. Today's episode was produced by Tani Levitt and Mijon Zulu. To check out more episodes or to learn more about the show, you can visit our website Allaboutchangepodcast.com. If you like our show, spread the word, tell a friend or family member, or leave us a review on your favorite podcasting app. We really appreciate it. All About Change is produced by the Ruderman Family Foundation. Episode…

People in this episode

Host: Jay Ruderman

Guest: Kaila Yu

Topics covered

  • Asian American identity
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • stereotypes
  • activism

Keywords

  • Kaila Yu
  • Asian American
  • memoir
  • feminism
  • fetishization
  • activism
  • beauty standards

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Fetishized: A Reckoning with Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty

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