Men Pay Her To Say "I Love You"

Men Pay Her To Say "I Love You"

From Amala Ekpunobi by Amala Ekpunobi

April 18, 2026 · 10 min

About this episode

The episode discusses an OnlyFans creator's revelation about men paying her to express affection, sparking a conversation about the implications for gender relations.

An OnlyFans creator revealed her most popular request has become men paying her to tell them “I love you” and “I miss you.” She goes on to mock them, saying they deserve to be lonely, as thousands of women comment their agreement and tell her to charge them double for this service. Have we hit rock bottom in the gender wars? Let’s talk about it. Become a Tea Drinker: https://www.patreon.com/AmalaEkpunobi Watch or Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Zq6iX6bOQtNkcX9zlTa4G?si=4b4cbec196bb44c1 Follow Me on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theamalaekpunobi TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsamalaekpunobi X: https://x.com/amalaekpunobiFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheAmalaEkpunobi/

People in this episode

Host: Amala Ekpunobi

Topics covered

  • gender dynamics
  • OnlyFans
  • emotional labor
  • relationships
  • loneliness

Keywords

  • OnlyFans
  • I love you
  • gender wars
  • emotional needs
  • loneliness

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Organizations: OnlyFans

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