Episode 121: The Tree is dead – How long will you keep watering it? A metaphor about dating

About this episode

The episode discusses the metaphor of nurturing a dead tree in relation to dating and relationships.

Instructional matchmaker Kristin Sokol, dater Barbie Berg, and comedian Steve Soelberg sit down for a fun, honest conversation about the loss of a beloved and much cared for dead tree in Barbie’s yard. The trio draws comparisons about nurturing what is unsalvageable in the dating space. It’s funny, insightful, and full of those “oh… that’s me” moments. Don’t miss this episode. If you’re new around... Read More

People in this episode

Hosts: Barbie Berg, Barbie

Guests: Kristin Sokol, Steve Soelberg

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• self improvement
• metaphor

Keywords

• loss
• insightful
• funny
• honest conversation

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Tree is

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