Bawdy Storytelling

In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And what exactly are the rules for touching? Join us as we explore the do's and don'ts of this mysterious and unconventional experience as Jeffrey teaches us how to connect, despite barriers (Really, there's a barrier there between them). Song: 'Accept My Shaft' (Ninja Sex Party) About the Storyteller: Jeffrey Allen Hayes has won Best of Bawdy multiple times. He holds an MA in Drama Therapy and works as a professional game master, facilitating games like Dungeons and Dragons with a focus on emotional growth and healing. Jeffrey is a beloved core member of the Bawdy family, and his stories are among our most requested. Anonymous Sex l Gay l Gloryhole l Scruff l App l Vulcan Death Grip l Romantic l Hookup l Grindr l LGBT l Twink l Proximity l Invitation l Google l The Tap l The Knock l Condom l Brownies l RSVP l Texts l Dickslap l Ecstasy l Polite l Canadian l Castro l Thrust l Extra Credit l Curtain l Hole l Sensation l Power l Fear l Touch l Come Inside l Connection l Relationship l One Night Stand l Blank Sheet l Joy l Episode links: Live Shows: September 6th: CHICAGO, IL Bawdy will on the Heath MainStage at the beautiful Den Theater on Friday, Sept 6th. Tickets at https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024 September 10th: PHILADELPHIA, PA I'm hosting First Person Arts' SexFiles live event 7 PM EST at World Café Live https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie October 18th: PORTLAND, OR We're returning to Curious Comedy Theater for both shows: our curated mainstage Bawdy Storytelling, followed by BawdySlam (where you can get onstage to win prizes). Plus it'll be Livestreamed! https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024 November 1st: SEATTLE, WA Bawdy comes to the gorgeous Century Ballroom https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024 WORKSHOPS: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling - learn Dixie's complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy, beautifully told Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour. Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She's taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too. Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling'. You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try out your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting. 'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly. With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends. ONLINE: September 7th I'll be teaching my 'How to Be Captivating' 2 hour workshop for First Person Arts More info at https://bit.ly/HowToBeCaptivatingFPA CHICAGO: September 8th I'm offering a full day 'How to Be Bawdy' storytelling Intensive on Sunday, Sept 8th - In Chicago, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at https://HowToBeBawdyChicago.eventbrite.com ONLINE: Sept 16 - Oct. 21st A 6 Week Online Storytelling Workshop, where we'll come together to work on our Bawdy stories - plus I've added optional Office Hours so that you can work with me and get custom coaching each week. WHEN: Mondays, Sept 16th - October 21st Time: 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT (8:30 - 10:30 PM EDT) PLUS Wednesdays, 5:30-7:30 PST With Optional weekly hours for custom coaching, Q&A, story advice & more) WHERE: Online, so that you can attend from anywhere in the world Register now at https://HowToBeBawdyVirtual.eventbrite.com PORTLAND: October 20th I'm offering a full day 'How to Be Bawdy' storytelling Intensive on Sunday, October 20th - In Portland, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR SEATTLE: November 3rd I'm offering a full day 'How to Be Bawdy' storytelling Intensive on Sunday, November 3rd - In Seattle, In Person. Come learn my simple story system and spend the day learning how to tell your own stories Register at https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle Other Links: The Dixie Ramble: My Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is starting next week. Substack is a great way to receive audio, video and written work from me. You can subscribe to The Dixie Ramble at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour Ongoing Support for the Podcast: Folks, I'm still considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. That means there's just a couple of episode left. If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. This decision will affect both of us. And if you listen, please make a One-time or Ongoing Donation to keep the Podcast going. Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. It's at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Sign up now and get the Replay of the Portland BawdySlam! (Plus the Portland curated show is up on Patreon, waiting for you) One Time Donation links are at: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Private Coaching with Dixie: Sexuality and Kink Coaching: I'm available for sexuality and kinky coaching, and story coaching. If you've always wished that you had someone to talk to openly, I'm here to support you (and give advice, if you want it - you decide what role I play. I'm a great listener, and a coach with many years of experience in this world. Story Coaching: I'd love to work with you on your personal story, because Storytelling is essential to your work, dating and social life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, storytelling for job interviews, etc). I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, landing your dream job, and discovering what makes *you* tick - storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you. Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, opening up your marriage, embracing a new identity or finding your way to a new, more authentic life, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Podcast Discussion group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

When you're incapable of an emotional connection, can hookups fill the gap? When Nonbinary Polyamorous Storyteller Nurse Comedian Ex-Nun Kelli Dunham loses multiple partners to cancer, she looks for community in a Brooklyn LGBT Grief Support Group, and ends up loafer-deep in anonymous sex among the scrubby pines of Fire Island. Plus, Dixie talks Sex Geek Summer Camp, Bawdy in Portland and her new How to Be Bawdy virtual workshop. #GriefSex "We must make love in between the bombs" - Paul Monette Song: 'F*ck the Pain Away' (Peaches) About the Storyteller: Kelli Dunham is the nonbinary ex-nun polyamorous storytelling nurse comedian that's so common in modern Brooklyn. Kelli has appeared on Showtime and the Discovery Channel, PBS Stories From the Stage, the Moth Mainstage, the Cinderblock Comedy Festival, the Women in Comedy Festival, and nationwide at colleges, Prides festivals, fundraisers, at oh so many nursing conferences and even the occasional livestock auction. Kelli's latest show, Second Helping, is coming to Ithaca, NY this week (July 12th) to Ann Arbor Michigan on August 2nd and OshKosh, Wisconsin on August 16th. Hate live shows? Second Helping with Kelli Dunham, Kelli's hilarious and earnest new podcast–inspired by all the questions she gets about asking for, receiving and learning how to accept help– is produced by Kinehora Production and debuting early this fall. Sign up to be the very first to know when it premiers! You can also find Kelli on substack, youtube, instagram, tiktok and facebook. Grief l Gay l Nature l Queer l Anonymous Sex l Hookup l Cruising l LGBT l Twink l Death l Raw l Play Party l Dungeon l Loss l Public Sex l Emotionally Devastated l Fire Island l Lookout l Bottoms Up l Condom l Lube l Buttplug l Dildo l Penis l Anal Hook l Human l Scholarship l Mental Health l Budget Cuts l Meat Rack l Subway l Appetizer l Wilderness l Lesbian l CisGender l Healing l Beach l Star Trek l Episode links: 'How to Be Bawdy' Storytelling Workshop - learn Dixie's complete 5-Step System & Learn the Craft of Sexy Stories from Award-winning Story Coach and Professional Storyteller Dixie De La Tour. Have you ever listened to a story at a live performance or on a podcast, and wished that you could share your own personal stories in such a well-crafted, relatable way? It's easy, if you have a System...and Dixie De La Tour has one. She's taught thousands of new and experienced storytellers to tell their story at Bawdy Storytelling. And now YOU can learn her simple system, too. Join Dixie for her all new workshop: 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling', a 6 week hands-on storytelling intensive. It starts next week! You'll engage in group & solo exercises in a sex-positive, community-based environment as you find & refine your own stories under Dixie's expert direction. Try our your own most intimate stories in a positive, supportive setting. 'How to Be Bawdy' includes special topics in sexuality, kink and gender-related storytelling, to help you articulate your stories clearly. With live sessions, weekly office hours, best practices for NSFW stories, performance tips, storytelling-related neuroscience, a custom workbook, coaching from Dixie - and a final storytelling performance for you and your friends. WHEN: Mondays, July 22 - August 26th, 2024 Time: 5:30 - 7:30 PM PDT (8:30 - 10:30 PM EDT) PLUS Weekly Office Hours: Wednesdays, 5:30-7:30 PST (Optional weekly hours for custom coaching, Q&A, story advice & more) WHERE: Online, so that you can attend from anywhere in the world And coming in August: How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (live and in-person!) The Dixie Ramble: My Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is starting next week. Substack is a great way to receive audio, video and written work from me. You can subscribe to The Dixie Ramble at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour And Folks, I'm still considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. That means there's less than a month's worth of episodes to go. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I'm wondering if I should put my energy to better use. Should I write a book? Start creating online courses? Sell pics of my feet? If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. This decision will affect both of us. And if you listen, please make a One-time or Ongoing Donation to keep the Podcast going! One Time Donation links are at: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Ongoing Support for the Podcast: Better yet, Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. It's at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Sign up now and get the Replay of the Portland BawdySlam! (Plus the Portland curated show is up on Patreon, waiting for you) Private Coaching: Sexuality and Kink Coaching: I'm available for sexuality and kinky coaching, and story coaching. If you've always wished that you had someone to talk to openly, I'm here to support you (and give advice, if you want it - you decide what role I play. I'm a great listener, and a coach with many years of experience in this world. Story Coaching: I'd love to work with you on your personal story, because Storytelling is essential to your work, dating and social life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, storytelling for job interviews, etc). I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, landing your dream job, and discovering what makes *you* tick - storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you. Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, opening up your marriage, embracing a new identity or finding your way to a new, more authentic life, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's a review of #BawdyGotMeLaid : "Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!" - Carlie You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Have you ever cried because you hate the body you're in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola's online Dom. Soon her submissive assignments begin to battle the negative self-talk imprinted on her by magazines, bullies, social media and family. What a difference a year - and being showered with love - can make to your self-esteem! And a recent PNW transplant asks: We know that Bawdy can get you laid…but can Bawdy help you love your new city and make the right friends? #BodyImage #LonelinessEpidemic Song: 'Chunky' (Bruno Mars) About the Storyteller: Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. In addition to her educational projects, Lola has brought her unique brand of sex-positive sex education to brands such as Shag in Williamsburg BK, Spectrum Boutique, B-Vibe, Le Wand, Blush, Freya, Womanizer, and Spencers Gifts. Dirty Lola's Sex-Ed-A-Go-Go is happening on Saturday, June 22nd in Brooklyn NY. Tickets at https://www.stellartickets.com/o/brooklyn-art-haus--2/events/dirty-lola-at-bah/ Body Image | Fat l Kink l Submission l Sir l Brat l Nipples l Dominance l JR Ewing l Nudes l Chubby l Divorced l Brooklyn l Southern Drawl l Daily Task l Confidence l Pics l Phone l Twitter l Titty Tuesday l Naked l Crying l Trust l OOTD l Hasbro l Texting l Husband l Confidence l Affection l Slut l Own Worst Enemy l Whipped l Kink Device l Daddy l Businessman l Monogamous l Shame l Kindness l Self Love l Episode links: LIVE SHOW AND LIVESTREAM: If you like this Award-Winning Podcast, we've got good news: There ain't nothing in the world like being right there at a live Bawdy event.... I guarantee it. Bawdy Storytelling is in Portland, Oregon this week At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. Tickets are available for Friday, June 21st, and they're selling fast. Ticket Links: Bawdy Storytelling, the Curated Mainstage show, at 7:30 PM:https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated Performers include: • Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour • Sex Geek & Relationship Coach Reid Mihalko • Dance Naked & Plan V's Eleanor O'Brien • Everywhere is Queer's Charlie Sprinkman • Black Man of Trans Experience & VanLifer, Rocky Lane • Music by Mark Growden • Play Bang-O to make New Friends - & Win Prizes • Win Prizes from Le Wand & B-Vibe • Win Prizes from Uberlube & Lovely Planet • Sexy Cocktails & Food available Join us for the Best First Date EVER Bawdy can help you find your People! Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Come to BawdySlam Portland (our 10:30 PM story slam) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes! Tickets for BawdySlam at 10:30 PM: BawdySlam https://tinyurl.com/BawdySlamPDX Get up and Tell YOUR story! (Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option) In Review: Friday, June 21st, 2024 (A 7:30 & a 10:30 Bawdy show) At Curious Comedy Theater5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland, OR 97211 The Shameless Sex Podcast's Unleashed Tour is coming to Portland Sunday, June 16th at 7:30 PM Special Guests include Dirty Lola, Dixie De La Tour and Shameless Sex' Amy Baldwin & April Lambert Tickets at https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/92352410/shameless-sex-podcast-portland-hawthorne-theatre Important Question: I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. It's been over 7 years now… Is this thing on? If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. Now, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I'm wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way. If you want to ensure this podcast continues, Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going! Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Other ways to keep Bawdy going: Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Storycoaching: I wanna work with you on your Personal Story/Keynote/Solo show/Wedding/You name it! Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you). Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's one: "Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!" - Carlie You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop 'Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll be announcing the date - and share the ticket link…Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration opens for these workshops - they sell out! Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Did you know that there's an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2 talented Nashville musicians who were inspired to write sex-positive songs after listening to Every.Single.Episode of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast. Nashville was definitely a highlight of my recent Cross Country to East Coast Tour, and finally, you too can hear a custom song written just for Bawdy. #ILoveCustomSongs Song: 'Bawdy, if you're feelin' Naughty' (Wet Bread) About our Songwriters: Melody Walker and Lizzy Ross are both celebrated songwriters in the indie folk and Americana scene who decided they had far hornier songs to write than their previous mainstream projects would allow for. They had spent so many years not wanting to seem like "those kind of bisexuals": you know, the lusty, insatiable, wanton kind of women who would start a band just to advertise their goods to a captive audience of other certified sluts and poly queerdos. But when Melody turned Lizzy onto her favorite podcast Bawdy Storytelling and then they found out Dixie was coming to Nashville, it was all over for their good reputation. They decided to risk it all to debut their new duo WET BREAD. Learn more about BERTHA (Melody Walker's Grateful Drag cover band) at https://www.gratefuldrag.com/ Or https://www.melodywalker.com/bertha Instagram: Follow Melody Walker at https://www.instagram.com/melodywritessongs And Lizzie Ross is at https://www.instagram.com/lizzyross/ Episode links: Bawdy is coming to Portland, Oregon! PORTLAND, OREGON: Bawdy Storytelling is coming to Portland for a 2 show night! Tickets now available for Friday, June 21st, and they're selling fast. Grab yours at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated Bawdy Storytelling's first Portland show since 2016 is happening at Curious Comedy Theater (who have been dreamy to work with so far). Folx, you like our Award-Winning Podcast, but there ain't nothing like a live Bawdy.... At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous Mainstage show, with polished & curated stories, music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. Then at 10:30 PM, join us for BawdySlam, where you can put your name in the hat to tell your own 5 Minute Story for fun and prizes. In Review: Friday, June 21st, 2024 At Curious Comedy Theater 5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd Portland, OR 97211 The Bawdy Storytelling Mainstage show (curated) is at 7:30 PM BawdySlam (where you can tell YOUR story) is at 10:30 PM Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPDX0621Curated Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option. Do you wanna get onstage at this show? There's 2 ways to do that: Send me your story pitch for the curated Bawdy. I'm particularly looking for Queer/POC/Alternative lifestyle storytellers for this show. Send me your story ASAP to BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Come to BawdySlam (at 10:30 PM) and put your name in the hat to tell your 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win prizes! URGENT: I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. Is this thing on? Do you love Bawdy? I need to hear from you, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I'm wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way (and going out of pocket isn't feasible anymore) If you want to ensure this podcast continues, Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going! Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Looking for another way to keep Bawdy going? Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Storycoaching: I wanna work with you on your Personal Story/Keynote/Solo show/Wedding/You name it! Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you). Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's one: "Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!" - Carlie You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop 'Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll be announcing the date - and share the ticket link…Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration opens for these workshops - they sell out! Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magician and their tantalizing true tale of an orgy at a Magician's Conference. And Before you can say 'Fortune favors the Brave', Scoby volunteers for their own kind of Hocus Pocus - and Abracadabra, Bawdy Gets You Laid! About our Storyteller: Scoby Goo dove into the worlds of kink and polyamory after attending a Bawdy Storytelling way back in 2014, following the show from San Francisco to LA to Seattle and then Chicago (and later, got onstage to share the stories created!). She now hosts communication and consent workshops, also known as Cuddle Parties, as a certified facilitator. While she can make kombucha (like her namesake: the Symbiotic Colony Of Bacteria and Yeast), she's more of an emotional fermentation process starter and she also offers intimacy coaching. Learn more at http://emotionalfermentation.com Key Words: Orgy | Magic l Bisexual l Magician l Gay lSiegfried & Roy l Grad School l Seattle l Cabaret l Bar l Storytelling show l Pansexual l Polycule l Crush l Prize l Sex Toys l Stage l Performance l Sleight of Hand l Dibs l 5 Magician Pileup l Levitation l Charlie's Angels l Mrs Frizzle l Grinding l Fingering l Fisting l Armpit Hair l Coconut Oil l Takes 2 Hands l Assistant l Psoriasis l Cowgirl l Parlor Trick l Party Crasher l Valid l Coming Out l Blonde l Brunette l Redhead l Rose l Threesome l Girlfriend l Partner l Invitation l MakeOut Session l Piercings l SuperFan l Humans l Squishy Bits l Non-Exclusive l Black Box Theater l Volunteer from the Audience l Magic Show l Imposition l Fear l Bother l Afterparty l Just Ask l Episode links: Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it's getting rave reviews! Here's one: "Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That's how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!" - Carlie Read more reviews here: https://sucreabeille.com/products/bawdygotmelaid You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There's also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It's sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop 'Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's work together. Message me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Want to ensure this podcast continues? Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going! Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Better yet… Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work with me, one-on-one? Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week's story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wielding/childbearing dominatrix, a lactating cam model, and others who find being with child a powerful proposition. Her research - and a permanently plugged in Magic Wand - provide a new perspective on raging hormones, body image, and desire. #KnockedUp Song: 'Dirty Little Secret' (Jefferson Bergey) About our Storyteller: Tracy Clark-Flory is a journalist, essayist, and author of the memoir Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire (Penguin, 2021), an NPR best book of the year. New York Times bestselling author Rebecca Traister called Want Me "intimate, challenging, and so very smart… a gift." Peggy Orenstein, author of the New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex, called it "crucially important." Clark-Flory has written for Cosmopolitan, Elle, Esquire, Glamour, The Guardian, and The Washington Post, to name just a few. She is a former senior staff writer at Jezebel and Salon. Her work has shown up in the Best Sex Writing anthology and she has been called "one of the best journalists of our generation writing about sexuality." She writes a weekly newsletter on sex, feminism, motherhood, and pop culture at tracyclarkflory.substack.com. Key Words: Pregnant | Swollen Belly l Beer Belly l Gangbang l Frat Boys l Casting Couch l Creepy Monsieur l Fetus l Desire l Thought Police l Hormones l Vibrator l Husband l Limitless Orgasms l Missionary l Cowgirl l Journalist l Research l Dominatrix l Weapon I Basketball l Trimester l Ample Curves l Neuroses l Hangups l Biology l Creativity l Lactation l Glowing l Search Term l Whip l Camgirl l Maternity l Slap l Plead l Magic Wand l Nerve Endings l Pickles and Ice Cream l Reproduction l Eroticized l Wholesome Sexuality l Buzz l Episode links: Lume Deodorant: Save over 40% on the Lume starter pack! Lume is seriously safe to use anywhere on your body - armpits, underboobs, thigh folds, belly buttons, butt cracks, vulvas, feet… It comes in fresh, bright scents like Clean Tangerine, Toasted Coconut, Lavender Sage, and more. Lime is Clinically proven to block odor all day and control odor for up to 72 hours, it's Baking soda and Paraben free, and it's pH balanced for safe use on all your bits. Lume's Starter Pack is perfect for new customers: The Starter Pack comes with a Solid Stick Deodorant, Cream Tube Deodorant, two free products of your choice (like Mini Body Wash and Deodorant Wipes), and free shipping. And remember, As a special offer for Bawdy listeners, New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code DIXIE at LumeDeodorant.com. Get over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code DIXIE - Tell em Dixie sent ya! My Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop 'Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned! AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you? How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking) • How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more) Make sure you're the first to know when registration happens. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Where should I bring Bawdy next? Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I'm back from Tour, and ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you're thinking, and let's figure it out! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue. If not Patreon: Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our Payment links are: Venmo: @BawdyStorytelling or https://www.venmo.com/bawdystorytelling CashApp: https://cash.app/$DixieDeLaTour Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: https://www.zellepay.com/ Email address is BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ko-fi : Ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here's a great deal: The Patreon All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some True Stories / Entertainment to stay thrilled and connected as only Bawdy can do, no matter where you are? Right now, you can Sign up (or Increase your support) for the $25/month level on Bawdy's Patreon and you'll get: • 40+ Hours of Bawdy, on Video! • 16 Full Length Livestreams (each is over 2 hours long) Recorded Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, Reid Mihalko, and many more • Original Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites from the Bawdy Stage You'll be helping me continue the Bawdy Podcast, Live Shows, and assist in the development of new projects that I have in the works • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to work one-on-one with me on your story? Storytelling is everywhere, and it's essential to your personal and work life. Right now I'm offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you) … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

🎧 Episode 286: 'Spicy Pervertible' (McKenning Wood) Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Episode Description: Have you ever awakened so achingly horny that you can't even complete the Highlights Word Search? Black Queer Activist McKenning Wood is freshly divorced as Pandemic hits, and the loneliness and indecision is overwhelming. What could eir perfect relationship look like? Casual? Committed? Vanilla? Polyamorous? And how do ey stay safe from COVID? As McKenning explores the possibilities, virtual kink play with person 1 bleeds over into in-person sex with someone else, thus we all learn that jalapeños are stubborn AF, and the produce department will do in a pinch (Pro Tip: McKenning's pronouns are Ey / Em / Eirs). And Dixie heads out on Tour this week, are you ready for Bawdy On The Run? Kink | Genderqueer l POC l Queer l Black l Vulva l Costco l Worker Owned Coop l Dating Profile | Swipe l COVID l Virologist l DNA Fragments l OKCupid l COVID-safe protocol l Safe l Powerpoint l Virtual Kink I Limits l Vaccine l Swipe Right l Proof l Vegetable Play l Spice Cabinet l Peppers l Cayenne l Habanero l Jalapeño l Trust l Ping l Tingle l African American l Insertable l Juice l Pussy Paste l Sludge l Seeds l Oils l Labia l Vibrator l Venus of Willendorf l Mohawk l Mouthfeel l Heat Tolerance l Well Seasoned l Well Provisioned l Produce l In Person l Pervertible l Song: 'She Calls Me Daddy' (King Mala) About our Storyteller: McKenning Wood is a sensation seeking pleasure provocateur, an abortion doula, and Black queer activist. Ey are an SF native who loves doing translational work to help folks see the beauty and value in themselves and others. Episode links: Needle Play Acupuncture: Needle Play Acupuncture was made by and for the Kink, Leather, and LGBTQIA+ communities. We deserve to have our whole selves treated, because feeling great, playing hard and having spectacular sex can be health goals too. NeedlePlay specializes in Transgender-affirming, kink-aware, and trauma-informed care that is sex and body-positive. They offer Expertise in Transgender care, from HRT enhancement to hair growth support. Plus, as you'd expect: Back pain, muscle pain, injuries, digestive issues, libido issues, mental health, inflammation, graceful aging through micro-needling, cosmetic acupuncture, and more. For a limited time, Bawdy Storytelling Listeners can use the discount code "May I Have Another", and you'll get 25% off. It's holiday time and an Acupuncture certificate is the perfect gift for your Dominant, your Metamours, or for the self-care you need after those exhausting family gatherings. SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? The best place to stay abreast is our email newsletter. Ticket links will be released on the Bawdy newsletter; as soon as we confirm a date, you can find out there. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe You'll be the first to see upcoming Tour Dates, get access to Tickets, Storytelling Workshops, Livestreams, Podcasts, Fan Meetups and Special Events. I've been shadow-banned on Social Media (which means no one can see my posts - and that sucks when you're headed out on a big Tour). Having my social media accounts deleted is probably next. If that happens, the only sure way for us to connect is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Please ask your friends to sign up, TOO. Let's be Friends! TOUR DATES scheduled thus far: • Baltimore MD (Friday, January 19th, 2024) https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreFriday • Baltimore MD (Saturday, January 20th, 2024) https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreSaturday Philadelphia PA (City Winery on January 26th, 2024) http://tinyurl.com/BawdyPhilly Pittsburgh PA (City Winery on February 4th, 2024) https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPittsburgh Nashville TN (City Winery on Friday, February 9th, 2024): http://tinyurl.com/BawdyNashville • New York City (City Winery on Wednesday, February 14th, 2024): http://tinyurl.com/BawdyNYC Atlanta GA (City Winery on Saturday, February 17th, 2024):https://tinyurl.com/BawdyAtlanta2024 Boston (City Winery on Sunday, February 25th, 2024): http://tinyurl.com/BawdyBoston Want me in your city? Maybe a house concert, a BawdySlam, or? Send me a message and let's make a plan: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: All-You-Can-Eat Video Special: Need some Entertainment to keep you thrilled and connected til the world warms up again? Right now, I have an End of Year Special Offer: 40+ Hours of Bawdy on Video! Sign up (or Increase your support) for Bawdy's Patreon and you get: • 16 Full Livestreams Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, ReidAboutSex and many more • Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites You'll be helping Dixie fulfill her Bawdy Storytelling Tour Dreams • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Not a Patreon member yet? Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude) Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ca$hApp: Wanna donate Miles to help with the Tour? Your Airline Miles help immensely, too. And by the way: THANK YOU for everything you do to keep this thing going! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Be careful with that Erection; you'll put an Eye out, kid! Sexual Folklorist & Christmas Orphan Dixie De La Tour isn't traveling for the Holidays, so she offers to petsit and housesit for a friend (hint: there's a hidden agenda). Her hosts hit the road and the intrigue begins: Dix spends Christmas Eve interviewing 3 (4?) men to find the perfect casual sex candidate for this special occasion. Is there anything more exciting than hooking up with a stranger in a house that's not yours? There is: having anonymous sex - on a perpetual loop - as you savor a Classic Christmas Movie in a brand new way. But there's been a unexpected witness to her Yuletide gaiety. Will they rat her out and put an end to her decade-long holiday legacy? Christmas l Holiday | Tradition l Craigslist Casual Encounters l Hookup l 3 Wise Men l Orgasm Gamification l A Christmas Story l Fireplace | Barcalounger l Leather Couch l Anonymous l Strangers l Cottage l Redhead l Objectification l Fantasy I Classic Movie l Housesitter l Petsitter l Evidence l Indictment l Condoms l Erectile Dysfunction Medication l Alcohol l Viagra l Cialis l Choose Wisely l Beavis & Butthead l Suitcase l Old House l Dehydrated l Improper Thoughts l Song: 'Sodomize An Elf' (MC Crumbsnatcher) This week's Christmas song is from my pal, MC Crumbsnatcher. He's got a whole new album of holiday songs, called 'Gay Sexxxmas'. Check it out! Find his music at https://www.mccrumbsnatcher.com/ About our Storyteller: Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour is a professional storyteller, podcaster, public speaking coach, community builder, but most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling, that's been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empowering performances. Bawdy's curated live stage series and podcast is Touring nationally in 2024 to celebrate 17 Years of Bawdy; her show, Bawdy Storytelling, has been called a 'Best Of' Podcast by Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Buzzfeed, Marie Claire, Uproxx, Bustle, Esquire Magazine and many more. In addition to the coaching she offers for Bawdy, Dixie coaches for TEDx, Women in Technology, teaches custom Brand Storytelling coaching and workshops, and offers storytelling master classes to colleges and high schools. This story-loving southerner is passionate about storytelling's ability to keep people safe, reduce our social anxiety, foster empathy, and make us feel more connected. Dixie has been Sainted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for her work to reduce stigma and eliminate shame, and she enjoys being a Muppet. Discover more about Dixie at Facebook.com/DixieDeLaTour, on Instagram at @Bawdy Storytelling, and at www.BawdyStorytelling.com Episode links: Needle Play Acupuncture: Needle Play Acupuncture was made by and for the Kink, Leather, and LGBTQIA+ communities. We deserve to have our whole selves treated, because feeling great, playing hard and having spectacular sex can be health goals too. NeedlePlay specializes in Transgender-affirming, kink-aware, and trauma-informed care that is sex and body-positive. They offer Expertise in Transgender care, from HRT enhancement to hair growth support. Plus, as you'd expect: Back pain, muscle pain, injuries, digestive issues, libido issues, mental health, inflammation, graceful aging through micro-needling, cosmetic acupuncture, and more. For a limited time, Bawdy Storytelling Listeners can use the discount code "May I Have Another", and you'll get 25% off. It's holiday time and an Acupuncture certificate is the perfect gift for your Dominant, your Metamours, or for the self-care you need after those exhausting family gatherings. SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? The best place to stay abreast is our email newsletter. Ticket links will be released on the Bawdy newsletter; as soon as we confirm a date, you can find out there. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe You'll be the first to see upcoming Tour Dates, get access to Tickets, Storytelling Workshops, Livestreams, Podcasts, Fan Meetups and Special Events. I've been shadowbanned on Social Media (which means no one can see my posts - and that sucks when you're headed out on a big Tour). Having my social media accounts deleted is probably next. If that happens, the only sure way for us to connect is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Please ask your friends to sign up, TOO. Let's be Friends! TOUR DATES scheduled thus far: • Baltimore MD (Friday, January 19th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreFriday • Baltimore MD (Saturday, January 20th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreSaturday Philadelphia PA (City Winery on January 26th, 2024) Tickets go on sale this week Pittsburgh PA (City Winery on February 4th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPittsburgh Nashville TN (City Winery on Friday, February 9th, 2024): Tickets go on sale this week • New York City (City Winery on Wednesday, February 14th, 2024): Tickets at http://tinyurl.com/BawdyNYC Atlanta GA (City Winery on Saturday, February 17th, 2024): Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyAtlanta2024 Want me in your city? Send me a message and let's make a plan! BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon Special Offer: All-You-Can-Eat Video Special: Need some Entertainment to keep you thrilled and connected til the world warms up again? Right now, I have an End of Year Special Offer: 40+ Hours of Bawdy on Video! Sign up (or Increase your support) for Bawdy's Patreon and you get: • 16 Full Livestreams Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, ReidAboutSex and many more • Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites You'll be helping Dixie fulfill her Bawdy Storytelling Tour Dreams • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Not a Patreon member yet? Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude) Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? How about a one-time Donation? Our links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy Ca$hApp: Wanna donate Miles to help with the Tour? Your Airline Miles help immensely, too. And by the way: THANK YOU for everything you do to keep this thing going! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

"Kinksters deserve Love too! You deserve a Fairy Tale that includes Whips and Chains and Rope and Nipple Clamps" Sexual Revolutionary & Feminist Prn Producer Madison Young is a globetrotting fetish model who likes her rope cinched Tight, and is not a fan of the 'Is this comfortable for you?' check-in. So when she meets the Rope Artist, she quickly falls in love with this stranger's warm touch, his smell, and most of all, his rope. And when they finally profess their feelings, everything changes. Plus Dixie is putting out a call for story pitches. Wanna get onstage? The first round of East Coast cities has been announced! Song: 'Around My Neck' (Finneas) Rope l Shibari | Bondage l Restraint l Cinch l Punk Rock l Tight l Nipple Clamps l Rope Artist l Dance | Arm Restraints l Hogtied l Flesh l Chest Harness l Ebby? l Suspension l Tie Me Up l Video I Partner l Submissive l Tour l Damsel in Distress l It's Different with You l Camera l Fairy l Safe Space l BreakUp l Daddy l Dominant l Husband l Parent l Photography l Model | Travel l Magic l Fetish l About our Storyteller: Madison Young is a sexual revolutionary that has been smashing stigma in the media for two decades across multiple mediums and platforms including several critically-acclaimed books, touring with their one womxn off-Broadway show, Reveal All Fear Nothing, and directing, hosting and producing the documentary television series, Submission Possible (Season 2 of their documentary tv series, Submission Possible, is available soon on Revry TV). Young brings her 20+ years of experience as a pioneer in the feminist porn movement, along with her award-winning filmmaking and writing talents, to her many projects in a way that reflects the emotional nuance and authentic vulnerability that has become a signature of Young's work. Young has been featured on HBO's Real Sex and has been profiled for her expertise in feminism, erotic film and sexuality on Dateline NBC, MTV, Slutever on Viceland, Bravo TV, The New York Times, Savage Love, BBC, Elle Magazine, and Elite Daily just to name a few. The reach and impact of Young's writing and filmmaking is deep and has garnered praises from celebrity icons including Margaret Cho, Dave Navarro, Maggie Gyllenhall, Amanda Palmer and Diablo Cody. Last Year, Young also opened The Arbor, a new art space and screening room in San Francisco's Mission District that is dedicated to amplifying the voices of queer and transgender narratives in film, television and visual art. Learn more about Madison Young at https://www.empressinlavendermedia.com/ Episode links: NOCD.com : OCD is more than what you see on TV and in the movies. Imagine having unwanted thoughts about your sexuality stuck in your head all day no matter how hard you try to make them go away. Relationship OCD is an often overlooked subtypes of OCD that come with unrelenting intrusive images, thoughts and urges about your partner, loved one, or sexuality. If you think you may be struggling with Relationship OCD, there's hope. NOCD offers effective, affordable, and convenient OCD therapy. NOCD therapists are trained in Exposure Response Prevention therapy, the gold standard treatment for OCD. With NOCD, you can do virtual, live face-to-face video sessions with one of their licensed, specialty-trained therapists. It's affordable and they accept most major insurance plans. Breaking the OCD cycle takes effective treatment.To get started, go to https://www.NOCD.com/ to book a free 15-minute call. SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? I'm trying to bring Bawdy to YOUR city and Tickets will be released FIRST on the Bawdy newsletter. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe You'll be the first to see upcoming tour dates, get access to tickets, storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, fan meetups and special events. I've been shadowbanned on Social Media and having my accounts deleted is probably next. The only sure way we can connect if that happens is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Please ask your friends to sign up, too. Let's be Friends! NEW TOUR DATES Announced! • Baltimore MD (January 19th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreFriday • Baltimore MD (January 20th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyBaltimoreSaturday Philadelphia PA: Tickets coming soon Pittsburgh PA (February 4th, 2024) Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyPittsburgh Nashville TN: Tickets coming soon • New York City: Tickets coming soon • Atlanta GA (February 17th, Brunch Show): Tickets at https://tinyurl.com/BawdyAtlanta2024 Patreon Special Offer: All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some Entertainment to get you thru til the world warms up again? Right now, I have an End of Year Special Offer: 40+ Hours of Bawdy! Sign up (or Increase your support) for Bawdy's Patreon and you get: • 16 Full Livestreams Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, ReidAboutSex and many more • Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites You'll be helping Dixie fulfill her Bawdy Storytelling Tour Dreams • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Bawdy still exists, Thanks to YOU. Not a Patreon member yet? Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude) Looking for another way to ensure this podcast continues? Donate at: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy And your Airline Miles will help immensely with this upcoming Tour, too. By the way: THANK YOU for considering it. PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

How do you go from being a Gay Baptist Republican to the Biggest Freak Meme on the Internet? Infamous Pron Clown Ouchy the Clown tells his Origin Story, from his quiet Queer roots in Texas to the life-changing visit to Burning Man that changed everything. Returning to Oakland with 70+ new best friends and an appreciation for people who can juggle sh*t, our pal Doug dons a leather harness, Doc Martins and greasepaint, and naively slides down an underground s*x party's fire pole into their Dungeon. Soon he's Famous on the Net, gives birth to the P*rn Clown Posse, is being flown around the country to jump out of a Refrigerator Box, and is notorious for introducing strangers to his irreverent, lighthearted approach to K!nk. And this week, Dixie fights Corporate Healthcare to help Helen tell her Cancer story, right there in the Chemo chair. Never give up! #RestInPeaceOuchy Song: 'Carousel' (Melanie Martinez) Queer l Clown l Leather | Subculture l S*xual Underground l Splosh l Dad Joke | Burning Man l P*rn Clown Posse l Tattoo l Hentai l Tentacle Pron l Electric Flyswatter l Spandex l Gay l Republican I Baptist l Morning Radio l DJ l Johnny Toxic l Dating Site l K!nk l Service Bottom l Penn & Teller l Cancer l Watersports l Food Play l Rubber l Safeword l K!nk l Logical Family | Sanguination l Clown Nose l Black Sheets l St. Andrews Cross l K!nky Salon l Polly Superstar l website l About our Storyteller: Ouchy the Clown was born in the Animal car of a Circus train in 1998. His parents were Delbert the Strong Man Messhuganutz, and Hortense the Ticket lady. Ouchy's formative years were spent on Alaskan Fishing boats, at Rodeos, in sloppy BDSM Dungeons, Sewers, Clown cars, Tiny bicycles, and Strip Bars with no windows. His favorite color is Ouch, and he loves Dad Jokes and pinching you while you are not looking. Ouchy is certified in nothing, and a legend in his own mind (and in the mind of anyone who knew him). Episode links: NOCD.com : OCD is more than what you see on TV and in the movies. Imagine having unwanted thoughts about your sexuality stuck in your head all day no matter how hard you try to make them go away. Relationship OCD is an often overlooked subtypes of OCD that come with unrelenting intrusive images, thoughts and urges about your partner, loved one, or sexuality. If you think you may be struggling with Relationship OCD, there's hope. NOCD offers effective, affordable, and convenient OCD therapy. NOCD therapists are trained in Exposure Response Prevention therapy, the gold standard treatment for OCD. With NOCD, you can do virtual, live face-to-face video sessions with one of their licensed, specialty-trained therapists. It's affordable and they accept most major insurance plans. Breaking the OCD cycle takes effective treatment.To get started, go to https://www.NOCD.com/ to book a free 15-minute call. WORKSHOP: Next Week! 'How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling' is happening live and in-person. It's an all day workshop happening on Sunday, December 3rd in San Francisco, and there's just a couple of spots left… Join Dixie and a fun/small/open-minded group of storytellers-to-be, where you'll learn Dixie's incredibly easy (and super secret) method. Soon, you'll rock that job interview, excel at public speaking, feel more at ease on dates, learn to fully express yourself and yes, even stand onstage and deliver a standing-ovation worthy chapter from your life. You'll find my unique story method valuable because once you learn how, you'll know the secret of telling a great story forever. #LifeSkills #NotJustBawdy How to Be Fascinating Workshop in San Francisco Date: Sunday, December 3rd (10 AM - 5 PM) Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopSFO Not in San Francisco? Contact me and we can work together! Email Dixie at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? I'm trying to bring Bawdy to YOUR city. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe You'll be the first to see upcoming tour dates, get access to tickets, storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, fan meetups and special events. I've been shadowbanned on Social Media and having my accounts deleted is probably next. The only sure way we can connect if that happens is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Please ask your friends to sign up, too. Let's be Friends! I'm the Special Guest Host on this week's Risk! Podcast ! It'll be available on Thursday, November 23rd, and I'm the host of their first ever 'S*x Stories' episode. Available wherever you listen to Podcasts. Happy Thanksgiving! #ThanksKevin Patreon Special Offer: All-You-Can-Eat Special: Need some Entertainment for this long Holiday weekend? Right now, I have an End of Year Special Offer: 40+ Hours of Bawdy! Sign up (or Increase your support) for Bawdy's Patreon and you get: • 16 Full Livestreams Stories from Margaret Cho, Sunny Megatron, Dirty Lola, Slutever, ReidAboutSex and many more • Music from Rachel Lark, Jefferson Bergey, Shirley Gnome - All your favorites You'll be helping Dixie fulfill her Bawdy Storytelling Tour Dreams • Available at the $25/month or greater level at: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Bawdy still exists, Thanks to our Patreon supporters! Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude) Looking for another way to Keep Us Going? Donate at: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe What is Substack? Substack is an email newsletter platform (made up of text, audio, video, etc) known for its hands off approach to censorship. While there are still some publishing guidelines (no porn, hate speech or harassment, for example), the platform's lack of gatekeeping has attracted both ground-breaking journalists and some seriously controversial writers". https://blog.hootsuite.com/what-is-substack/ Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Have you ever run away to the circus and offered a clown a blowjob? It's 1977 in Jolly Old England, and Golden Age of Adult Cinema megastar Veronica Hart (a.k.a Jane Esther Hamilton) is performing under the big top when Brian the tightrope clown catches her eye - so she propositions him backstage. Flattered, Brian tells Vanessa he's happily married - and then the fun really begins! That night's intimate threesome turns into a family breakfast and a lifelong connection that inspired Veronica Hart's career as an actress, producer and director. Song: '3' (Britney Spears) Threesome l I Love my Wife l Big Top | Family l Circus l Clown l Elephants l Trapeze Artist l Human Cannonball | Performer l Gobsmacked l Model l Actress l Dancer l Singer l Best Gift l Industry l Tube l Tooting | Pixie l Wine l Malarkey l Parents l Relaxed l Threesome Dynamic l Integrity l Trustworthy l Worship l Miniskirt l Nipple I Crosseyed l Wink l Nuzzle l Smoosh l Guide l Huzzah l Sleepover l Breakfast l Pancakes and Orange Juice l A Scent of Heather l Wanda Whips Fall Street l Misty Beethoven the Musical l Marilyn Chambers l Producer l Director l Ginger Lynn l Michael Nin l Intimacy l Golden Age of Adult Cinema l London l About our Storyteller: Veronica Hart (aka Jane Esther Hamilton) became a star in Adult Cinema's Golden Age, won Best Actress and Best Supporting Actress in the Eroticas and XRCO Awards, and is included in several Adult Hall of Fames. Veronica Hart is one of the twenty-five most notable legends of erotica, and is listed as one of the one hundred most influential people in sex. She has a BA in Theatrical Arts, and is known for performing in many adult films, including A Scent of Heather, Wanda Whips Wall Street, Roommates and Amanda by Night and also acting in mainstream, playing the judge in Boogie Nights and Viveca St. James in Six Feet Under and for acting on stage in The Deep Throat Sex Scandal, The Dyke and the Porn Star and Dial S for Sex. Veronica's Awards include XRCO and Erotica Awards for Best Actress, Best Supporting Actress and Best Non-Sex Performance and membership in the AVN and XRCO Halls of Fame. After retiring from performing hardcore, Veronica became a featured dancer and a producer and director and received an XRCO Best Video Award for Torn (directed and produced by Hart) and for Best Comedy or Parody - Misty Beethoven: The Musical (directed, edited and produced by Hart). Veronica has a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and has worked in Las Vegas at the Erotic Heritage Museum, taught intimacy and loving relationships in China and has a wonderful husband, Stan and two amazing sons, Chris and Max. She currently works as an extra in major Hollywood productions and is looking for representation. As a member of SAG/AFTRA, Veronica is open and available for acting jobs as long as any media is union sanctioned. Check out this Daily Beast article about Jane Hamilton, Annie Sprinkle, Veronica Vera and the infamous Club 90: https://www.thedailybeast.com/club-90-the-secret-womens-club-that-rocked-the-porn-world Episode links: SUBSCRIBE: Want to be the first to know where Bawdy is headed to on our National Tour? I'm trying to bring Bawdy to YOUR city. Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe You'll be the first to see upcoming tour dates, get access to tickets, storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, fan meetups and special events. I've been shadowbanned on Social Media and having my accounts deleted is probably next. The only sure way we can connect if that happens is for you to sign up for Bawdy's email newsletter. Let's be Friends! (And please ask your friends to sign up, too) WORKSHOP: 'How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling' is happening live and in-person. It's an all day workshop happening on Sunday, December 3rd in San Francisco, and there's just a couple of spots left… Join Dixie and a fun/small/open-minded group of storytellers-to-be, where you'll learn Dixie's incredibly easy (and super secret) method. Soon, you'll rock that job interview, excel at public speaking, feel more at ease on dates, learn to fully express yourself and yes, even stand onstage and deliver a standing-ovation worthy chapter from your life. My unique story method is so valuable because once you learn how, you'll know the secret of telling a great story forever. #LifeSkills #NotJustBawdy How to Be Fascinating Workshop in San Francisco Date: Sunday, December 3rd (10 AM - 5 PM) Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopSFO Questions? Email Dixie at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon: Bawdy still exists, Thanks to our Patreon supporters. But we're still in dire financial straits, and every dollar matters SO MUCH right now. I want to keep producing, archiving and sharing these exceptional, one-of-a-kind true stories for you for a long, long time - but I'm totally dependent on Bawdy's audience to continue. Would you please help? Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. Become a Member now: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Every dollar you send our way ensures that we will make it through this, so please, Help (before it's too late). Please consider a donation (of any amount) to our Patreon, or through a one-time donation below. I'd be so grateful! Looking for another way to Keep Us Going? Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe What is Substack? Substack is an email newsletter platform (made up of text, audio, video, etc) known for its hands off approach to censorship. While there are still some publishing guidelines (no porn, hate speech or harassment, for example), the platform's lack of gatekeeping has attracted both ground-breaking journalists and some seriously controversial writers". https://blog.hootsuite.com/what-is-substack/ Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's Virtual Assistant is Roillan James Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

Does assisting the other penis with lube application just feel like the polite thing to do? Burlesque Performer and Kinesthesiologist Jet Noir grew up rejecting the label 'Bisexual', because although his mother and father raised him shame-free, the world isn't quite so openminded. Moving out on his own at 18, he started dating with intention, trying on prospective partners with the intent of recreating the 'wife and babies' life that had surrounded him. But as he stood at his father's grave and watched his mother wave goodbye to the casket, Jet came to a life-changing realization: That was their story, not his, and he never wanted to go back to 'normal' ever again. #ShameFree #NoLabels #BeWhoYouAre #DiscoverYourself #MentalHealth Song: 'No Matter What' (Calum Scott) Bisexual l Queer | Gay l Pansexual l Family l Death l Wife and Kids l Shame | Evaluating Life Partners l Fire and Brimstone Church l Gay is Serious l Buy You a Woman l Best Friends l Label It l Manhood | Molesting l Marriage l Dad Jokes l Dating with Intention l Queer Lifestyle l Reassurance l l The Nod l Funeral l Their Story l Let Go l Changed Everything l Attracted to Everyone l Lubrication l Am I Straight l All Inclusive l Out l Pride l Every Gender l About our Storyteller: Jet Noir has been involved in sex positive communities since 2002 when he lived in Atlanta and wandered into the now defunct Club Venus. As a Kinesiologist, educated in the study of human movement and sport psychology, he has spent years coaching people to improve their perception of their bodies. He has taught workshops on improving the relationship we have with our five senses (interoception). He's lectured on unpacking racial fetishization, humor in sex education, and navigating consent, internationally. He's done clip work and education workshops for Kink dot com. He worked as an organizer for Express Yourself, a play party for people of color by people of color, in Oakland and as the emotional support "Angel" for a few other Bay Area sex positive communities. Jet is a writer who reviews sex toys and porn. Jet lives in Oakland, CA with his partner and their three cats. Episode links: SUBSCRIBE: Social Media is shutting me down, and the only way to be sure we can connect is by signing up for Bawdy's email newsletter. It will tell you about upcoming live shows and workshops, plus I'm working on a National Tour right now, so we might just be coming to a city near you! Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live traveling shows, fan meetups and special events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe WORKSHOP: 'How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling' is now a One Day Workshop, and it's happening soon - in both San Francisco and Los Angeles! Join Dixie live and in-person, where she'll teach you her incredibly easy (and super secret) method to rock that job interview, excel at public speaking, to feel more at ease on dates, and yes, stand onstage and deliver a standing-ovation worthy chapter from your life. This method is incredibly valuable because once you learn how, you'll know the secret forever. #LifeSkills #NotJustBawdy In Los Angeles on Sunday, November 5th Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopLA In San Francisco on Sunday, December 3rd (this one's almost Sold Out!) Register now at https://tinyurl.com/HTBFWorkshopSFO Questions? Email Dixie at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Patreon: Bawdy Storytelling is in dire financial straits right now. Only You can help keep Bawdy going: Please consider a donation (of any amount) to our Patreon or through a one-time donation below. I want to keep producing, archiving and sharing these exceptional, one-of-a-kind true stories for you for a long, long time - but I'm totally dependent on my audience right now. Join Bawdy's Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. Become a Member now: https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Every dollar you send our way ensures that we will make it through, so please, Help Us (before it's too late). Looking for another way to Keep Us Going? Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com BuyMeACoffee: buymeacoff.ee/bawdy CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! PRIVATE COACHING with Dixie: Want to work one-on-one with me? Right now I'm offering personal branding (your dating profile, website, etc), Storycoaching a nervous new keynote speaker, and I help develop documentaries, craft personal stories for the stage, and write their books - because storytelling is everywhere you wanna be. I can help you live the life that you've always dreamed about: communicate with clarity, help you land your dream job, and discover your own story … Whether it's getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen. My upcoming Substack 'The Dixie Ramble' is at https://substack.com/profile/22550258-dixie-de-la-tour #Subscribe What is Substack? Substack is an email newsletter platform (made up of text, audio, video, etc) known for its hands off approach to censorship. While there are still some publishing guidelines (no porn, hate speech or harassment, for example), the platform's lack of gatekeeping has attracted both ground-breaking journalists and some seriously controversial writers". https://blog.hootsuite.com/what-is-substack/ Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith Dixie's VA is Roillan James Additional support from Donal Mooney & Crystal Crowe Bawdy's Creator & Podcast Host is Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! Website: https://bawdystorytelling.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Subscribe at Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe