1469 | How Could I Possibly Say No to This?

About this episode

Carl explores the moments when opportunities feel perfectly aligned and reflects on decision-making and commitment.

In this episode, Carl explores the rare moments in life when an opportunity feels so deeply aligned that the question becomes, “How could I possibly say no to this?” Using the example of getting into a dream school like Juilliard, he reflects on regret minimization, the difference between making the “right” decision and making a decision right, and the mysterious way life sometimes rearranges itself after we commit to something meaningful. It’s a thoughtful conversation about risk, dreams, uncertainty, and the courage to say yes. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

People in this episode

Host: Carl Richards

Topics covered

• opportunity
• decision making
• risk
• dreams
• uncertainty
• commitment

Keywords

• opportunity
• decision
• risk
• dreams
• Juilliard
• commitment
• regret minimization

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Juilliard

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