Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

Happy New Years from Blended Kingdom Families! In this New Year reflection episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale invite listeners to pause, reflect, and trust God’s timing after a year that may not have gone as planned. They talk openly about unmet expectations, waiting seasons, disappointment, and the human tendency to control outcomes instead of surrendering them to God. Through Scripture, personal testimony, and encouragement, Scott and Vanessa...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season. Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page befor...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey. They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tensio...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco discuss one of the most convicting topics for Christian parents, what happens when we unintentionally place our children above God. Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they explore how parents can idolize their kids through sports, academics, or even family schedules, and how this shift can slowly pull families away from faith and obedience to God. You will hear practical advice on how...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences. They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace. Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about d...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa share biblical and practical ways husbands and wives can support one another emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Learn how to listen without judgment, show appreciation, prioritize quality time, and build deeper intimacy God’s way. Whether you’re newly married or blending a family, this episode will help you strengthen your relationship, honor your spouse, and create a marriage rooted in faith and love. We pray...

The relationship between a stepparent and their stepchildren can be complicated and complex because there are so many factors at play. Sometimes, those dynamics can delay or derail step-parent/stepchild bonding. In this episode, How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Scott and Vanessa talk about the role step parents play in creating a solid bond with their stepchild; they also offer suggestions for nurturing and growing those relationships. We pray this podcast ...

How do you and your blended family put the 'fun' in dysfunction? We know that blending can be difficult, but you and your family can find ways to overcome the trials of transitioning into blended family life. This podcast is for you if you are seeking strategies for finding fun in seasons of dysfunction or you want to overcome expectations for blending. This week's episode is all about expectations and dysfunction in blended families. We share ideas for fun activities to do as a family ...

In this week’s episode we revisit an incredible episode full of Godly wisdom for your blended family; Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken. In this episode we discuss the term “broken home” and the importance of removing the phrase from our vocabulary. When our families are built on the foundation of Jesus Christ, they cannot be broken. Whatever is in your past does not hinder you from experiencing the blessings that God has in store for your blended family. Whether you are ...

Marriage works best when our priorities are in the right order: God first, spouse second, children third; but living that out isn’t always easy, especially in a blended family. In this first episode of our 4-part series from our book, Blended & Redeemed, Scott and Vanessa share biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you build (or rebuild) a God-centered marriage that thrives. Whether you’re: Engaged or newly married and ready to start strong Remarried and determined to do things God’...

How did you navigate the Stepparent Name Game in your blended family? We know there is a lot to consider when it comes to this part of the blending journey. This podcast is for you if you, your spouse, and your co-parents are struggling with Stepparent Names or if you are unsure of how to approach the subject with your children. A question we receive frequently is: What should a child call their stepparent? In this episode we share why we feel that it is important for children t...

Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family podcast episodes! Living blended their entire lives, Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first hand both the joys and difficulties of living blended. After coming out of one of the hardest seasons of their life, God asked them to partner with Him, in building Blended Kingdom Families everywhere. This has now birthed a ministry that desires to help others in remarriage and cultivate community among blended families. Today Sco...