Podcast 9 - Why Your Son Needs to Be Bored

About this episode

The episode discusses the importance of boredom for children in the context of modern digital distractions.

We now know that modern digital platforms are engineered systems designed to capture attention through dopaminergic feedback loops, optimized relentlessly to keep us engaged, scrolling, and mildly dissatisfied. I highly recommend the documentary The Social Dilemma , which was my first eye-opening gut punch on just how effective these systems are at watching us, learning us, and gently herding us into endless loops with no natural stopping point. (Did you know that Instagram actually follows your eye-movements to better measure how you like each portion of the endless scroll? yes, it’s creepy.) Full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

People in this episode

Host: Johann Arnason

Topics covered

• boredom
• digital platforms
• parenting
• attention
• dopaminergic feedback loops

Keywords

• boredom
• digital engagement
• parenting
• attention capture
• social media

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Social Dilemma

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