The 40 Days of Waiting

The 40 Days of Waiting

From Breslov Therapy by Meir Elkabas

April 16, 2026 · 20 min

About this episode

This episode discusses the spiritual significance of the 40 days of waiting after childbirth and its connection to personal growth and joy.

In Parshat Tazria/Metzora, the Torah’s requirement for a woman to wait 40 or 80 days after childbirth reveals a deeper spiritual principle—that true growth comes through waiting. Rebbe Nachman teaches that accessing the Infinite Light (Keter) requires a pushback, a delay that builds vessels. The waiting period allows the mother to internalize the light generated through the creation of life, which itself is a moment of connection to the Infinite. The doubling for a girl reflects an added dimension of future potential, as she too carries the capacity for creation.This process teaches that setbacks, delays, and feelings of distance are not obstacles but essential stages of growth. Just as the waiting leads to renewed connection through the korbanot, today our tefillot serve that role. Ultimately, the key to navigating this process is simcha—joy—which reconnects a person to the Infinite Light and becomes the primary tool for overcoming challenges and moving toward redemption.This class is based on Likutey Moharan lesson 24. For more on this lesson: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠linktr.ee/breslovtherapy_lesson_24⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you have been…

Topics covered

  • waiting
  • spiritual growth
  • childbirth
  • Infinite Light
  • joy
  • redemption

Keywords

  • Parshat Tazria/Metzora
  • Rebbe Nachman
  • korbanot
  • tefillot
  • Likutey Moharan

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Parshat Tazria/Metzora, Torah

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