Brief Talk After Dark – Brief Tale featuring Pup Hermes

Brief Talk After Dark – Brief Tale featuring Pup Hermes

From Brief Talk After Dark by Brief Talk After Dark

January 17, 2026 · 48 min

About this episode

Pup Hermes discusses confidence, sexual expression, and community building within the kink scene.

Guest: Pup Hermes In this episode of Brief Talk , UNB Tim sits down with Pup Hermes —a proud thonger, kinky pup, and longtime member of the fetish community—to talk about gear, confidence, sexual expression, and building real community beyond the hookup. From discovering thongs in high school in a conservative environment to becoming deeply immersed in San Francisco’s kink scene and now creating fetish-forward community spaces in Chicago, Pup Hermes shares an open, honest, and unapologetic conversation about owning what you love and finding your people. This episode goes beyond underwear and sex—it’s about confidence, creativity, chosen family, and giving people permission to show up as their full selves. What We Talk About in This Episode Discovering thongs and fetish gear while growing up in a conservative area Wearing thongs in high school—and owning it How underwear became a source of confidence and self-expression Working at Mr. S Leather and life inside San Francisco’s kink scene Winning Mr. San Francisco Rubber 2017 Building a thong collection (over 500 pairs and counting) Favorite thong brands, fabrics, and pouch styles The difference between wearing a thong and being a…

People in this episode

Host: UNB Tim

Guest: Pup Hermes

Topics covered

  • sexual expression
  • kink community
  • confidence
  • fetish gear
  • chosen family
  • self-expression

Keywords

  • thong
  • fetish
  • kink
  • confidence
  • community
  • self-expression
  • San Francisco
  • Chicago

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Mr. S Leather

Places: San Francisco, Chicago

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