
Brothers, Sisters, Strangers: A Podcast on Sibling Estrangement
by Ali-John Chaudhary, Psychotherapist and Fern Schumer Chapman, Author
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Verbal Abuse and Sibling Estrangement Part 2 of 2: What Psychology Says and What to do
Jun 26, 2026
20m 26s
Verbal Abuse and Sibling Estrangement - Part 1 of 2
Jun 15, 2026
17m 57s
The Body's Response to Trauma and Sibling Estrangement
May 21, 2026
28m 11s
Coercive Isolation: How a Controlling Spouse Severs the Sibling Bond
May 1, 2026
20m 17s
7 Types of Trust and Sibling Estrangement - Part 2 of 2 : How Trust Erodes and Repairs
Apr 10, 2026
28m 16s
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| 6/26/26 | ![]() Verbal Abuse and Sibling Estrangement Part 2 of 2: What Psychology Says and What to do | In this episode, we explore why sibling verbal abuse is far more than ordinary conflict. Through the lenses of power and control, attachment theory, trauma, cognitive distortions, and family systems, we explore how chronic ridicule, invalidation, and emotional intimidation can erode self-worth and create lasting psychological harm. We also examine why estrangement may be an act of self-preservation rather than punishment. Finally, we offer grounded strategies for healing: naming the experience clearly, tracking your nervous system, setting behavior-based boundaries, and rebuilding internal safety. This conversation brings language, validation, and hope to an often misunderstood kind of family pain.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 20m 26s | ||||||
| 6/15/26 | ![]() Verbal Abuse and Sibling Estrangement - Part 1 of 2 | In this episode, we unpack the difference between ordinary sibling conflict and verbal abuse that gets dismissed as “just rivalry.” Sarcasm, chronic criticism, gaslighting, guilt-tripping, exclusion, contempt, and controlling “concern” can erode self-worth and create emotional unsafety. These patterns keep us stuck in family roles, and they often reflect power and control dynamics in sibling relationships that come from attachment injuries, trauma responses, and internalized shame. In this episode, we explore practical ways to respond to these patterns, such as naming the experience clearly, tracking your nervous system, setting behavior-based boundaries, reducing exposure, and rebuilding an inner sense of safety, clarity, and self-trust over time.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 17m 57s | ||||||
| 5/21/26 | ![]() The Body's Response to Trauma and Sibling Estrangement | Sibling estrangement affects both emotional and physical well-being. The episode explores how family dynamics, especially parenting styles and emotional needs, shape our self-esteem and coping patterns. Estrangement often triggers chronic stress, manifesting as physical symptoms like fatigue, headaches, and sleep disturbances. Emotional effects such as guilt, shame, and anxiety can lead to physiological responses, including elevated cortisol and diminished immune function. The podcast offers strategies for healing, including slowing down, recognizing unhealthy family patterns, and prioritizing self-care and emotional expression. Ultimately, we emphasize the importance of addressing unresolved trauma for healthier relationships and bodies.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 28m 11s | ||||||
| 5/1/26 | ![]() Coercive Isolation: How a Controlling Spouse Severs the Sibling Bond | Controlling spouses sometimes mandate a family cutoff, and this ambiguous loss can result in confusion and deep mourning. In this episode, we delve into coercive isolation, gaslighting, and ultimatums that erode sibling bonds, often leaving family members searching for answers. When a partner creates a new negative narrative, family members may become defensive, further complicating the situation. The best response is to keep the door open, maintain gentle contact, and reclaim your own narrative. Ultimately, healing comes from moving forward, not waiting for permission from others.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 20m 17s | ||||||
| 4/10/26 | ![]() 7 Types of Trust and Sibling Estrangement - Part 2 of 2 : How Trust Erodes and Repairs | In this second episode on trust and sibling estrangement, we explore five key ways trust breaks down in relationships: micro-inconsistencies like unreliability, emotional unsafety when vulnerability is dismissed, betrayal of goodwill where intent is questioned, integrity collapse through repeated hypocrisy, and capacity failures due to personal limitations. Our discussion highlights that trust is not only lost through major betrayals, but also through everyday missteps. To repair trust, the injured sibling must feel heard and his or her hurt must be acknowledged. The hurt sibling also must see that behavior has changed over time.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 28m 16s | ||||||
| 4/5/26 | ![]() 7 Types of Trust and Sibling Estrangement - Part 1 of 2 | Trust is the glue that binds us together with another person. However, trust can be broken in a variety of ways, such as when siblings experience micro-inconsistencies, emotional unsafety, intent betrayal, integrity collapse, and capacity failures. In part one of two episodes, we discuss different types of trust: · predictive trust is reliability · emotional trust offers psychological safety · confidential trust protects privacy · Intent-based trust means believing in goodwill · Integrity trust ensures values align with actions · capacity-based trust focuses on competence · Existential trust is deep relational safety Join us as we explore all this, as well as the challenges of repairing and rebuilding after trust has been broken.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 23m 09s | ||||||
| 4/5/26 | ![]() Emotionally Immature Parents and Sibling Estrangement | Emotionally immature parents often display self-focus, defensiveness, lack of accountability and difficulty meeting their children's emotional needs. These behaviors can create an unstable environment where siblings compete for approval, experience favoritism or scapegoating and lack guidance in resolving conflicts. These family dynamics frequently result in sibling estrangement, with children either internalizing blame or acting out. Healing involves recognizing these patterns, setting boundaries, reducing self-blame, and, if possible, fostering direct communication. Ultimately, understanding parental emotional immaturity is a key to breaking cycles of estrangement and fostering healthier relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 17m 03s | ||||||
| 3/22/26 | ![]() Hitting a Milestone: 100 Episodes of our Podcast on Sibling Estrangement!! | In this episode, hosts Ali-John Chaudhary and Fern Schumer Chapman celebrate the 100th episode of the "Brothers, Sisters, Strangers" podcast, reflecting on five years of breaking the silence around sibling estrangement. Here, the hosts revisit transformative episodes, highlighting topics such as the effects of avoidant attachment, healthy and unhealthy types of angers, the effects of parental favoritism on children, the role of fawning as a survival mechanism, and the unexpected benefits of post-traumatic growth. Looking forward, the goal of the podcast remains the same: to empower listeners who struggle with sibling estrangement by fostering understanding and community.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 25m 13s | ||||||
| 3/22/26 | ![]() Fawning and Sibling Estrangement | This podcast explores how fawning—a trauma-driven survival response—shapes sibling estrangement. Psychologist Ingrid Clayton explains that fawning involves hyper-attuning to a sibling’s moods, avoiding confrontation, minimizing one’s needs, and over-functioning to maintain family harmony. These behaviors, rooted in childhood survival within unpredictable or unsafe homes, persist into adulthood as chronic people-pleasing, caretaking, and performative relationships. Fawners sacrifice authenticity for safety, leading to emotional distance and even estrangement. Clayton distinguishes fawning from intentional people-pleasing, emphasizing it's an automatic nervous system reaction. Healing requires recognizing these patterns, setting boundaries, and reclaiming one’s authentic self.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 19m 37s | ||||||
| 3/22/26 | ![]() Grounding Strategies for the Holidays | In this episode, we explore practical ways to remain grounded and centered during the stressful holiday season, especially for those facing sibling estrangement. Strategies include cognitive techniques like mantras and affirmations, emotional tools such as labeling feelings and setting micro-boundaries, and somatic practices like breathwork, shielding stance, and using weighted objects. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize their well-being, attend only welcoming gatherings, prepare exit strategies, and keep interactions light to avoid conflict. Self-care, emotional regulation, and creating a safe environment can help when navigating family dynamics and emotional challenges during the holidays.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 22s | ||||||
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| 3/22/26 | ![]() What Does a Healthy Sibling Relationship Look Like? | This episode explores the essential ingredients for a healthy sibling bond. Repair and resilience are key—conflicts are inevitable, but healing and moving forward together define a strong relationship. Revisiting family memories and creating new traditions create a sense of belonging and shared meaning. Respect and autonomy are vital; healthy siblings balance closeness while honoring differences. The siblings adapt as life changes. Finally, care and reliability ensure trust and emotional safety, with both siblings showing up and contributing. Here, we explore these crucial elements that create nourishing and enduring connections with a brother or sister.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 18m 55s | ||||||
| 3/22/26 | ![]() False Narratives and Sibling Estrangement | This episode explores false narratives and how families navigate different positions and contentious issues. Here, we highlight communication breakdowns where some siblings feel misunderstood and quickly become defensive, clinging to narrow beliefs and identities. These patterns can mirror broader identity politics, as people reinforce personal biases and resist growth or curiosity. We explore how core beliefs -- such as feeling unworthy or unseen -- can drive false narratives and prevent constructive dialogues. Listeners are encouraged to consider the emotional experiences of each party, challenge their own assumptions to foster open, respectful conversations and develop healthier family relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 37s | ||||||
| 3/18/26 | ![]() Navigating the "Not Doing" Family with Sibling Estrangement | Estrangement is often maintained through the omission of expected acts of kinship, such as withholding greetings or failing to acknowledge milestones. This is a concept that is now called “Not Doing Family.” Family members who are subjected to these omissions feel neglected, resentful, mistrustful, and confused about their own self-worth. In this episode, we explore practical strategies for navigating these dynamics, like recognizing avoidance patterns, setting low-energy contact options, and seeking support outside the family. We also highlight how low effort families can revitalize their connections through small, structured changes and open communication.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 22m 35s | ||||||
| 3/18/26 | ![]() FOMO and Sibling Estrangement - Why Missing Out Hurts So Much | Those of us who are estranged from siblings often suffer from FOMO— the fear of missing out on milestones, family events, and meaningful bonds. FOMO can produce feelings of grief, regret, and shame. In addition, the estranged often feel the stigma of family alienation and the societal pressure to have closeness. This episode highlights the fundamental human need to belong and how exclusion can cause long-lasting emotional wounds. We also explore strategies for coping with FOMO, such as introspection, reframing negative thoughts, and seeking joy outside of toxic relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 19m 35s | ||||||
| 3/18/26 | ![]() Stop Erasing Yourself - The Hidden Cost of Sibling Estrangement | Empaths often overextend in emotionally distant sibling relationships, leading to habitual self-suppression; they may choose silence or compliance at a great personal cost. Over time, this pattern becomes normalized, creating anxiety, resentment, and emotional burnout. In this episode, we explore how self-erasure damages self esteem. By setting boundaries, viewers can reclaim self-worth and foster genuine, balanced relationships. Breaking free from this cycle increases resilience and protects against manipulation, promoting a healthier, more authentic sense of self.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 14m 38s | ||||||
| 3/18/26 | ![]() The "Family Fixer" Trap with Sibling Estrangement | In this episode, we explore the role of "the fixer" -- the individual who feels compelled, whether by choice or expectation, to repair family ties after breakdowns. It’s dangerous to take sole ownership of mending relationships, as this can lead to emotional burnout, scapegoating, neglect of personal needs, and unhealthy family patterns. This episode highlights that fixing can be a trauma response—rooted in fears of abandonment and conditional love—and urges those in difficult relationships to prioritize personal boundaries and self-worth over the compulsion to resolve every familial conflict.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 38s | ||||||
| 3/14/26 | ![]() Avoidant Attachment Styles and Sibling Estrangement | Siblings with conflicting attachment styles may struggle to meet each other’s emotional needs. A dismissive sibling might view an anxious sibling's need for closeness as overwhelming, which the anxious sibling feels rejected or undervalued. Understanding attachment styles can help siblings gain insight into unhealthy dynamics. In this episode, we explore various attachment styles and how they shape sibling relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 25m 20s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 | ![]() When Family Becomes A Trigger in Sibling Estrangement | A unique form of grief comes with losing connection to a sibling; waves of sadness and anger are often sparked by unrecognized cues. In this insightful episode, we explore the unpredictable and stealth nature of grief triggers and their emotional fallout. To manage sibling grief, it helps to understand the various types of triggers, such as sensory, situational, emotional, and relational. Here, we discuss practical strategies to identify and navigate these emotions to regain balance and peace.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 19m 30s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 | ![]() Projection and Sibling Estrangement | Projection -- when one attributes one’s own unacceptable thoughts or feelings onto another – is common in sibling estrangement. Some examples are when a sibling says,“You’re so selfish” or “You’ve always been jealous of me.” In this episode, we discuss how to become aware of projection and how to maintain personal boundaries without feeling the need to explain or justify oneself. For example, it’s best to offer short, unemotional responses, and avoid long discussions that can lead to emotional manipulation. Walking away may be necessary. Ultimately, self-respect and protecting one's peace are paramount.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 17m 53s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 | ![]() How To Eulogize an Estranged Sibling | In this episode, we explore ways to eulogize an estranged family member -- a challenging task due to a lack of recent memories. We help viewers navigate this delicate task without seeming disrespectful. For example, we encourage the estranged relative to consider sharing distant childhood memories or speaking about the deceased's character traits. This episode shows that emotions and past experiences can be meaningful, even if they are not recent; it is possible to honor the memory of an estranged relative with respect and sensitivity.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 14m 03s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 | ![]() Sibling Estrangement: One Size Does Not Fit All | A new book, The Power of Parting by Eamon Doyle, advises readers on how to cut off toxic relationships with courage and confidence and without guilt. However, in this episode, we explore the dangers of applying a “one-size-fits-all approach” to any sibling or family estrangement. It’s important to ensure a proportional response to a strained relationship. For some, that might be partial or limited contact. For others, it could be no contact, depending on the degree of volatility in the relationship. Join us for this lively discussion on the various kinds of estrangements and how these approaches affect the individual, relationships, and the larger family.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 25s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 | ![]() The "Almost" Sibling Relationship and Sibling Estrangement | A sister or brother who feels rejected and repeatedly hurt by a sibling can opt for a more limited connection or what we call “The Almost Sibling Relationship.” This type of connection insulates antagonistic siblings from the devastating fallout that may result from a complete estrangement. This option placates family members, balancing the collective good against a sister or brother’s need for dignity, authenticity, and autonomy. In this episode, we explore the pros and cons of the Almost Sibling Relationship and we offer guidance on how to sustain a limited connection.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 14m 40s | ||||||
| 2/28/26 | ![]() Biases and Sibling Estrangement - Part 2 of 2 | In this episode, we continue our discussion about biases -- mental shortcuts that distort thinking and influence how we perceive and respond to situations. In sibling estrangement, biases act as invisible barriers shaping memories, blame, and feelings. We define and give examples of the following -- Anchoring Bias, In-group Bias, Self-Serving Bias, Availability Heuristic, Groupthink, and Status Quo Bias. Recognizing these biases can help siblings understand misperceptions in their relationships and can help mend fractured relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 55s | ||||||
| 2/28/26 | ![]() Parental Favoritism and Sibling Estrangement | In this episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of parental favoritism and its effects on sibling relationships. New research reveals that daughters and children who are conscientious, responsible, organized, and agreeable tend to receive better treatment from their parents, and siblings who receive less favored treatment generally suffer from poorer mental health and more stressful family relationships. This important episode explores this research and the need for parents and siblings to be aware of how favoritism can damage relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 10s | ||||||
| 2/28/26 | ![]() Biases and Sibling Estrangement - Part 1 of 2 | Biases are mental shortcuts or distortions in thinking that influence how we perceive, interpret, and respond to situations, often without us realizing it. In the context of sibling estrangement, biases can act like invisible barriers that shape how we remember past interactions, assign blame, and justify our feelings or actions. They color our perceptions of each other, making it harder to bridge divides or see the situation from another’s perspective. In today’s episode, we’ll explore these biases and learn how they contribute to misunderstandings. Being mindful of biases can improve sibling relationships.Ali-John's Public Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/5minutetherapyJoin my Private Facebook Group. and get a free gift when you answer 3 questions. https://www.facebook.com/groups/688926101896419/For informative articles on sibling estrangement, please visit http://www.siblingestrangement.com/blogI also host a Sibling Estrangement Support Group on Zoom: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/For more info on my workshops on rumination and navigating the stages of grief with sibling estrangement, please visit: https://siblingestrangement.com/groups/Ali-John is starting up the Wellness Rewards Club in January 2026! This will be a chance to be part of a club, through a YouTube membership, where you get some premium strategies for managing sibling estrangement.Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SiblingEstrangementTo buy Fern's book on Sibling Estrangement: https://www.lakeforestbookstore.com/book/9780525561699Link to the workbook Sibling Estrangement Journal on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BLLTT6SJ#SalesRankTo connect with Author Fern Schumer Chapman, please visit her website at: https://www.fernschumerchapman.comOr visit her Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/FernSchumerChapmanAuthorPageYou can read Fern's Sibling Estrangement articles on Psychology Today here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/contributors/fern-schumer-chapmanLike what you hear? Feel free to donate to help us continue to make quality content: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=X9VW7VYD864TG | 16m 20s | ||||||
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